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So you don't want to do dates and just get down to the sex? It seems you have been forward with your needs since you were rejected, if this happens again then you should move on

I am always baffled by people who break up and don't actually break up . . . at least be honest with yourself.

Anyways, he broke up with you so if he wants a relationship then he has to come back...

You stay with her, she'll use you . . . you leave her but still talk to her, she'll use you . . . .you cut her out of your life, priceless.

So you both acted like you weren't interested in sex . . .and then you have (almost) sex?

Why do you feel used? He asked you over and you agreed?

"he keeps saying that he has his guard up, and...

"all I can do is be here for him everyday and remind him of what we have and how dearly I care for him."

That's good . . .just work with that and don't disrespect him or give him any reason to...

Whatever you do, you need to put your foot down and make it strictly friendship or strictly relationship . . . none of this back and forth stuff, it will only add confusion

Wow, she was in a relationship before and she didn't have sex . . . but she lost her virginity to you, well that must mean you're somewhat special.

Is this relationship long distance? how far of a...

"he knows i have a bf" . . . you should have put this at the start of the paragraph

I think he was being polite and keeping his gentlemanly distance because he knows you have a bf

"then we got together for 2 months and we broke up coz she cant let go of her ex. i begged her almost 7 times last year as we broke up 7 times"
"i changed to a controlling person in these 10 months"...

I have absolutely no qualification to say this . . but she sounds EXTREMELY dependent and jealous

If this attitude interferes with the relationships . . .then you need to end it. . . how long has...

well. . .where is this survey?

That's okay . . . let it out . . . this forum could be your emotional safety blanket.

Good job with cutting contacts and keeping yourself busy

FIRSTLY take this post and summarize it into 1 5-line paragraph! . . . I honestly skipped down to the "dropped the bomb" part

"They told me not to contact her, to not text her or phone her or...

Well firstly, don't based your life or your future off other people or how they turned out. . . .are they you? No.

As for you last relationship, I assume you left, you left because he wasn't worth...

"she's perfect for me and i can't see any wrong in her." . . . nice one, that attitude WILL set you up for failure.

I don't think too much about ex's getting back together

I personally wouldn't go to funerals . . .but 2 1/2 years is probably long enough so you should go.

Any chatting is good . . . .facebook would work.

All this snooping on both sides. . . and she actually goes to some ex-boyfriends house and kisses him - so much so that he actually asks for sex?!

But it seems to me this is doomed for failure, "I...

I wouldn't really accept that talking negatively behind my back stuff . . . . what it just negative or actually insulting (talking crap)?

but as for venting, that's normal - but usually I'd think...

Well if you can live without the sex and you get along with her then I guess you could hold out . . . but "she doesn't think we should do things like this outside of marriage", well, does that mean...

how long have you known him? . . .how often did you talk? . . .have you met?

And read what Reeba says, good points about e-dating

Can you be just friend with Amy?

Guys talk . . .girls talk . . . he's just trying to get social and sex points which he can show off in front of his friends.

Also, you know "he said he didn't want anything serious", so understand...

well if you've tried too times . . .then it's time to move on

. . .mind you, reading that post, it seems liked you paid for lots - save your money and use it wisely.

Lol, I'm cautious to respond to this thread cause it might just give more reason to over-think things. . . just forget everything, be calm, and ask her.