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SurfHB You make my day
Your lines of whit are interesting, i must say
I write you this poem to tell you
I am not gay


Did you adore the poem HB? You can Google it, I wrote it myself...

Take the plunge... You won't know unless you talk to her, she could be your future wife. If you worry too much about getting hurt then you will always be hurt. Tell her you are sorry for being a...

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein

Guys are visually stimulated not much else to it. Some mystery is very HOT and teasing with the "big holes" in the sweater I could see being a huge turn-on. Most guys love teddies and the like for...

Hard to say how he would deal with loss. Could be he is over her and wouldn't give it a second thought, no need for a "rebound" girl at all. I say enjoy the ride and see what happens. You start to...

If she was married I would encourage her to repair her marriage and be a supportive friend even if I did want to get with her honoring the sanctity of marriage is more important than getting laid. ...

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar... "It's no big deal" she could be saying "It's no big deal"

Your making it out to be bigger that it is. Maybe you are insecure about your relationship due to...

Don't worry about it. She had a few drinks and it happen, she didn't like it. The big takeaway is that your chances of the threesome is out. Or she did like it and is afraid to tell you so your...

Notice I did say that HE needed therapy as well. Because HE did, in essence CHEAT on her I think they would need couples counseling as well to resolve that issue as well. He is defiantly at fault...

Good stuff here. I guess my approach of making sure she is satisfied before I am has been the right approach all along. Good to know I have been doing something right.

As I said, he needs help but so do you or you will never have trust. You both need counseling and he definitely needs therapy. If you two agree to work on it together then you can get past this, if...

Some of the happiest relationships are with your best friend. Ask most couples who have been married for a long time and they will tell you "I married my best friend". From how you described your...

Go to counseling. Seek professional help for your relationship and for him. You two have a family together and you both owe it to your kids to fix your problems.

What he said or did is irrelevant. You need to break it off, even if he continues his advances. Do you want to ruin he marriage? Do you want his kids to suffer thru a divorce that you helped cause?...

Start sending her very long text messages and spell out every word. Actually I again, as odd as it is, agree with HB.

two words - couples therapy... I think leaving him is selfish, a relationship is about the two of you not just you and not just him. Maybe going out and "exploring" as a couple... Find new common...

Wow, real advise and it was good! Spot on sir hope she listens to you.

So ScottieGuy, Any updates after Christmas?

Dude, post this in the "Ask a Female Forum" so you can get some guys to respond... I think only women are responding in the "Ask a Male Forum"

I don't agree with you so you classify my as "dumb"? Not sure how you came to that conclusion. Glad to see you jump straight to insults though when others disagree with you. I do not look down on...

I am shorter that allot of guys I know but I don't think I fall into the "Troll" status... Not sure what this has to do with his MMF situation though or his prospects for a FFM down the road...

Wait... Isn't this "Ask a Male" forum anyway? Something you want to come clean about Anastasis?

I am sorry... Maybe I missed something on his original post. Did she have the MMF while she was with him? From what I read it was in her past... He is treating her as she has treated him not...

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone...

See, that's harsh... Do you regret that? Should you be ostracized for that comment? Our past helps make us who we are today, it is how we grow and mature. Our mistakes make us better people.