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Yes! ^This.
Thank you!
Some people sure get in an interesting holier-than-thou mode here.

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To the person who somehow didn't get the hint about their wrong use of...

I was not saying that this is what I feel. I was merely responding to that article and similar ones.
Fact is "romantic feelings" are sometimes hard to detect at first, and the points that are listed...

It's very encouraging to hear stories like yours! For so many reasons...
Most of all this really gives me hope that everything might work out and I might be friends with both of them down the line....

whoa... that escalated quickly.

So ok, maybe saying that calling this an affair is mean was not right. I did that because I honestly felt that it was not my fault. I had actually distanced myself...

That seems like a bit of an exaggeration. So you suggest that people who are in committed relationships stop any one-on-one interactions with people of the opposite sex? What about my best friend who...

it's very individual and might be different for your gf.
The answer is not straight forward: Sex is important, as in the whole process from initiation to what happens afterwards. Orgasm might be...

(the forum somehow erased my reply, so I'll type a short version again)

thank you!
I definitely need more time, but I also need to talk to him and say why I need time and how I feel about the...

@ Hannie:

Thank you for the advice.
I definitely need more time. On the other hand, I'm scared that *not* seeing him might lead to me idealizing him... I don't know.
So far I've spent a few...

melancholia, thank you for this great reply!!
You really helped me a lot and I appreciate your support and the plethora of questions to ask myself. It did not just help me, but actually made me feel...

Thank you for the replies.

I think the advice to stay away from him until I can think clearly is very good.
The friendship with his wife is actually a tougher aspect of all of this, because she...

Before I get all the "but how can you be after a married guy?!" responses: I am not trying to steal this man away form his wife! At all! Ever.

The whole situation is very complicated and I have...