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Yep she's cheating.

I would because it would be a trust issue but my relationships have been very different from your girlfriends and I would never sneak behind his back, ie get the ex to block him rather than blocking...

Well all I can say is that I've tried many times.... If it feels right for you to try and then fail and at least you can look back and know you did what you could then you have your answer.

Believe me it will be so much better for all involved if you leave him. I bet once you REALLY have left for a while he will sort himself out more and realise his sad situation.

He is a waste of...

Firstly i agree inyourface is a complete idiot.

Secondly how about waiting a while then buying her one of those books, or passing on one that you have read. Shes obviously shy about it so if you...

Well sometimes they can't. My husband doesn't want to loose me but there's loads I'm not happy about the way he is but he can't change it. He admits it, accepts it but can't change it. You can't...

OK, I'll learn!

OK thanks Smackie9, I will do. It's my first time on anything like this, so was a bit surprised! Glad there are good and helpful people on here like you!

I still can't get over your comments, that I shouldn't have relationships or get married - bloody hilarious. I wonder how God feels about your unkindness to other humans. I thought the bible was...

InYourFACE I think your comments are harsh, unfair and wrong. You did get one thing right yes that i probably need to give more information.

You need to understand that life isn't straight...

Oh and you are so young, this is a momentary blitch, one of the not so good times in life which make the good times even better. If will pass. Nothing is permanent.

Is it really just about the sex or about the daily tred mill you are on? Maybe it's time to take control and change things. If you are (which I don't think is the case) feeling suicidal purely due...

Very insightful smackie9. Interestingly points about her natural learned behaviour. I suppose we all have that but in different ways, unfortunately for this girl she's allowing others to take...

No it's probably not. I wonder have you ever brought up with her your comment about these other guys and her just wanting to feel accepted. It's probably too sensitive to mention to her but maybe...

I think Mr Bartender maybe onto something and I also think it boils down to what Smackie9 says. For some reason in relationships it's harder to put your happiness first.

Thanks Smackie9. The thing is he's not a bad person, so i think i would feel bad dating others and also what type of guy would you meet that wants to be involved with a married woman with 2 kids! ...

Yes I agree she has issues with sex due to her past and that is where the problem is now with him thinking she is cheating. I must admit it sounds like she may well be but it's her behaviour that...

Wow. What country do you live in? Could you press charges against him? That would be one way to get your mother away from him, kill 2 birds with one stone, so to speak. What he did to you is just...

I would have said it was discharge for sure and could have been a one off discharge but if it's every time she goes out and no other time, then that's a different story. How many times are we talking...

Just to add, I think it's awful that she got the ex to block you on fb but not block him - it is a big trust barrier that she broke in doing that and put you, the guy who looks after the son and the...

Well I think in one way it is a good thing that she is on good terms with her exes and the father of her child. That shows that they still like her, gives her strength and maturity as a person. BUT...

I have been married for 4 years, together for 10 (with a year's break) and we have 2 kids together. We moved abroad 4 years ago and we are still here. My husband is my best friend and in one sense we...