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Amen! Double standard.

How long were you both together and why did it end? Did you break up with her or was it mutual? For all you dont know, she was feeling the same but made the choice to move on. Her calls and response...

Very true, Archie. Afterall, it the getting to know one another and sharing ideas and differences that creates a lasting relationship. I feel a lot more confident and will run with his guy. :)

We all have pet peeves but ladies, what are your biggest pet peves about guys?... I'll start the forum with " When He is ignorant and still has mommy doing his laundry and heicopter daddy managimg...

It's a beautiful day today. I sent him a text after work to wish him a good softball game. He responded within 3 mins so that's a plus... I am confident I'm worthy of him, just not use to having a...

Mmm, I may be naive but not dumb or crazy. My ex dumped me but it doesn't mean I lose my morals and values. Thanks, but No thanks. Ill stick to dating outside the company pool. Flirting is no harm...

He did, my mind just totally went blank. Dont get me wrong, it wasnt awful. I just want to prepare myself for next time. Maybe after a few more dates I can ease up and be myself. Also, how does one...

Went on a date last night and had a tough time holding conversations towards the end. He's smart with a good sense of humor, down to earth, very open minded, and successful.

Date started well...

In response to DalMom, maybe both the attention and rebound. I havent opened myself to dating in a while and it was good to still feel attractive.

Sounds like your boyfriend is either emotionally unavailable, got comfortable with you (although 4 months is to soon to be comfortable), seeing someone or checked out and has slowly distanting...

Thank you for the honest feedback. Now that I think about it, fishing off the company pier is a given "no!" I should know better... And need to cross him off my list. Maybe flirt here and there but...

The last two month has been hell... cries with pleads and begging to my ex for a reason why he dumped me; left me in the dark. Worst part is feeling that his reasons are all but an excuse... It is...

Dude, the pendulum swings both ways. Good luck and dont be arrogant or stubborn. Life has a way of working itself out.

Thank you Pistach1985. I have good days and bad days but slowly and surly it is feeling better.

I've been in a similar situation and honestly, it's hard. Was he like that in the beginning? I often see couples who have been dating for years get comfortable with each other and forget how to enjoy...

Very well said Richiro!

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You got comfortable in your relationship or simply bored. Maybe it's time to take a step back Reenaroo and figure out what you want. It's unfair to...

Do you know if hes on medication or suffering from depression, past tramas?

I think he's just trying to act tough and shielding himself from showing his soft side. We are human and it's inevitable to not feel or have emotions.

It sounds like at the end of the day, you heart is with D. Do want your heart desires. Don't settle for less because you don't want to hurt P even if it means loosing her. Take time to think and...

Thank you for the kind words of encouragement. It's hard but I will try.

At the end of the day, i realize it's me fighting myself and hurting myself. There are good days but the bad days are worse and tourtore. I wish I didn't have to feel this way.

I'm on an emotional rollercoaster. These feelings come in waves. My chest feels tight and I want to throw up. Trying my best to hold my feelings at work but it's hard to focus.

I've been...

It's easy to give advice than to take our own advice. No one knows your relationship best then you. When you are truely ready to move on, you will know.

Dido to that!

Love turns me into an idiot. Time to wake up and smell the coffee!