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Guys take it harder. When a woman leaves a man, she generally has moved on before she has left. Thus, she is fine after that breakup and you are left with heartbroken guys who are completely...

I've totally bottled this. Managed to get to Day 13 and started contacting again. I'm starting to see clearly now though I think. I'm starting to realise it's because she has been my one and only...

I think it is getting easier. I think!

I spent over an hour writing her a huge email about stuff then just deleted it. Felt sooo much better about things.

Day Twelve...

Day Eleven.....

I just have to get her back. I have to. There's a reason I can't move on - because moving on is not the answer. Getting her back is the answer... I just can't figure out how!

Five years together.

I panic and push her away.

She goes away.

I try to get her back.

She says no, she wants to be single, she needs space, there's nothing I can do to change her mind.

Day Ten. Longest we've gone without talking to each other since 2006 (when we started going out).

Day Nine. Still counting, sorry.

Dat Eight... I want her back.

Day Seven.

Day 6 today. Getting harder every day. Today easily the hardest so far. Her best mate unfriended me on Facebook. Feel so rejected, so empty. Days 1-4 were so much easier than 5 and 6.

Day five. Hardest day so far. Such a feeling of emptiness.

Day Four. Hollow feeling of loss remains.

Day Three...

I text her Friday asking if there was definitely no chance and if there was anything I could do. She said there was no chance, ever, and there was nothing that I could do...

So I took a big step...

Be strong!!

Today = Day Two!!!

Was out clubbing last night and kissed with two different girls, gave a girl my number and asked her to contact me if she wanted me to take her for dinner, and got another...

Day one today.

My girlfriend of five years has done the exact same thing to me more or less. She swears blind that there is nobody else and I believe her because I trust her completely. She just wants to be...

I read your story thoroughly and I am sorry that this has happened to you (truly).

I think, as a guy, its possible that he was "plodding along" in the relationship and was following the beaten...

What sort of things did you do that had her calling you again?

I was with mine for five years and did the same thing. Tried to get her back and she told me she had moved on and wanted to be single. I did everything I could, sent flowers, gifts, declared my...

The problem is I regret how we left things after 5 years together. ie, her slamming her door in my face. Seems like we should end it on a nicer note than that and it stops me succeeding at NC.
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Broke NC today for something stupid that I just felt I had to share with her. Day two and broken.

Start again tomorrow.