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everytime we could basically which wasnt as often as I'd like.

Man, the best thing you can do is drop the emotional baggage, it's the best way to get her back.

At some point you 2 got together and you weren't being needy or anything, the less you care the...

I htink you just gotta keep control of yourself in the situation and everything is going to be fine

This, just play it cool man, no one wnats an emotional rampage after this.

My ex gf was 18, I was 23 thats a 5 year gap. The relationship went pretty well most times, I dont see why not.

Maybe you could pull back a little bit on the texting and calling, that could get her to chase you a bit more and probably want to spend more time together (woah that sounds sneaky)

Im a decent looking guy, and looks alone dont get you girls, Ive been "beaten" by guys who are bad looking but have a better attitude than me.

Looks mean nothing it's all in how you carry yourself.

You gotta learn to love yourself before you cna love anyone else man, as cheesy as that sounds.

It's true, girls are usually attracted to guys who dont care for them because they arent being needy...

Yes, it does seem like a little bit of jealousy

Becareful because sometimes you can get a bit jealous when your friend gets with someone you kinda like, I've been there before and its usually...

First decide what you want.

Then act upon it, this girl is definetly interested in some way, if you want to just be friends then be her friend.

If you want to get something going on then you...

Keep teasing her and keep it playful, your ultimate goal is to meet her in real life, you want to "become a real person" as soon as you can.

For now youre just "mr.internet guy" your goal is to...

The way I like to see this is to build a lifestyle where you are meeting lots of people naturally.

Work your social circles and start meeting more and more people!

Appart from that you can try...

Hey man, you have 2 options

1) Keep ypu act up and achieve nothing

2) Act and grow, even if it doesnt work you'll be growing.

I got a gf through kind of keeping an act up, problem is when...

Id say the best approach is for you to do something with this guy instead of just waiting.

If its going to happen you can make it happen intead of just waiting ;)

I actually wrote an article fro my site about this, first date advice hope it helps you out, you can PM me for details

Yes a lot, society just mkaes them hold back a lot more

It'll be as big of a deal as you make it, for women it's more important how she's feeling and being stimulated than the actual act.

LEAD and make things happen and you'll master it.

Stop trying to force them into one and it willl probably come easily, true story

I usually do and I'm a guy, unless Im really interested.

That's girls for you, it's the way they work.

Maybe somehting happened with her bf, they had a fight, she's feeling sad and not in the mood for anything.

Just stay under the radar for a while...

I linke to lead a lot, stay really close, tease her, be intenese then take it all back, it does wonders

I forgot to say.

I'd try to make things staright before taking the decision, go for stating what you want and leading the entire situation.

A lot of times what a woman needs if for you to lead,...

If it were me I'd break it off, you gotta be the one setting the standards for what you accept and what you dont accept, I wouldnt accpet this knd of behavior from anyone.

I have a question for you, what "triggered" those constant thoughts about your ex?

Agreed.

A lot of girls are actually fine with these kind of things, more than youd imagine.