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well, we spoke last night. I went by her house and we sat outside for hours talking about us. first she cleared up that she is not dating anyone and not going out for booty calls or having sex with...

i guess you all gave up on me lol

just to update:
she has told me that there has been some old high school friends that she has been flirting with that she has met on facebook( she just recently joined facebook). She has been...

Tomorrow I have to do something that is probably one of the most difficult things I have had to do in my life. I have to put an end to our friendship. I found out tonight that she is going out again....

just to update the situaton, on sunday she called me and asked what I was doing. I told her I was going to eat lunch, she asked if she could join me. We ate together at a diner, and she paid the...

You are right, but I just dont get why she is as close to me now as ever. I mean, if she went on a date last night and likes this guy, why the heck would she call me and spend the whole day with me....

I dont get it. Why does she cling on to me. She supposedly had a date last night, so why does she text me early this morning and ask to get togeter today. I really dont see her as trying to torture...

Thank you for your response any other thoughts? Please help. I'm feeling really bad

Well you are all right. I just dont want to deal with the hurt. She told me she is going out tonight and Im sure its some kind of date. Cant say for sure but I know it has to be the case. I do know...

But she is feeling more confident and happier now than she has in years. Thats why I dont think shes using me.
I know this is complicated but I feel like she is scared to comitt because she knows...

Using my mind for what? Thats what I dont get. What benefit does she get from me? Shes not crying on my shoulder about guy problems. Shes not using me financially or physically. I just dont get it. I...

you may be right, like I said i feel the odds are not very good. But I just dont understand why situations like this almost never end up on a positive note. Is there anyone out there that has a story...

Well we went out. We went to a show then for dinner and drinks. She dressed casual but very nice, and the restraint was kind of romantic. We sat along the water with a beautiful view of the city.
I...

Im sure your right. But me being the "fool" in love seems to think that something good can happen. Like I said, I have to see her everyday at work, and we live so close. Its very very difficult to...

Thank you Chris.
I agree with you about the protective barriers. I dont feel like I will get anywhere if I talk to her about the contradictions I see. We have spoken briefly about it and our...

thanks for the reply.
I know it seems like that but she doesnt ask me for anything or to do anything. She just basically asks me to hang out. In the past I did so much for her, and I volunteered...

im sorry if this is long, I just need advice pretty quick because tomorrow night is when we are supposed to go out.
Thanks again for any help

Hello Ladies,

I was hoping to get some advice on my situation. If you read my past thread about a year ago you might have an idea what happened.
To make a long story short for the past year or so...

thank you lotus petals. I like your advice and I will try, but is is so difficult.
I do want her because she has def changed, she is not depressed anymore and she is a happier person. We spent the...

It makes sense what you are saying. But the fact that she iniated us dating in the beginning and that she had strong feelings for me makes me feel like there is a chance, although by no means am I...

I understand what ur saying. But I honestly think she cares. I don't let her know how bad I feel. I tell her I'm hurt but not to a big extent. I also found out that she went out with a group. Not a...

it hurts to much. I do want the best for her but right now I cant stand the pain. I know she lies to me because she doesnt want to hurt me but I want to be able to trust her too. She is in a tough...

I am totally devastated right now. I'm sick and can't even function. I am in love with a close friend. We dated briefly in the past. She actually asked me to date. She ended it then we got back and...

Thank you for your responses. It makes sense what you are saying, but this seems a little more complicated.
She tells me she wants to spend less time and stops calling me after work and on the...

thanks for the response. Yes, I did tell her how i felt, but I did not pressure her or annoy her with it. My actions alone told her how much I care about her.
Im sure she is more comfortable being a...