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Seems crazy to me to arrange something like this so close to the possible birth of a child.

I don't think you'll find many people who'd think it was cool. It's not at all unreasonable to ask him...

You need to talk to him about this.

He needs to know that you feel uncomfortable, not because you don't trust him but because you don't trust her or her motives.

These conversations can be...

Er...yes, she could. There's lots of pointers here to suggest she does.

Do you like her?

If you do, ask her out.

What can you lose?

Michelle, no I left my wife. I will never cheat on someone again.

Wouldn't add much else to basilandthyme's comments.

Haven't been here long but she seems a very sensible lady. Maybe the only thing I'd change is the bit about being available, might sound too...

Some thoughts.

First off I'm not going to judge you morally. I cheated on my wife a few times so I'm in no position to condemn either of you.

Although you appear not to have been kissing (or...

A month isn't very long after a relationship that lasted seven years. I'm guessing it fizzled out and that you were probably over this guy before he officially became your ex. Would that be fair to...

Ann may have a point here.

You seem to be over-analysing and basing too much on supposition rather than actual experience.

Most people, men and women want to make sure they've found the right...

Good luck.

It sounds to me like you're building up issues about things that haven't happened to you yet.

Take everything one step at a time and don't worry about what's coming next, just enjoy the present.
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If you're asking how long you should wait before you have sex then there's not really a magic amount of time. It's different for everyone. It's about you both feeling ready and comfortable.

If...

First things first. You are very young to be considering marriage - particularly marriage to someone who has children already. I got married too early and I lived to regret it. But ultimately...

Hello again. There's been no developments, just a lot of thinking on my part.

I don't know if she'll get back in touch but if she does I want to be prepared for it. In the email I sent after our...

I can see positives and negatives for going and not going.

Seeing your ex in her new relationship will be painful but it will also be a further nail in the coffin of your relationship and might...

I genuinely don't believe that it's important for partners to know all about each other's previous relationships (romantic or sexual). What's important is the present and the future

You didn't...

This sounds a little like the classic I can ignore you but you'd better not ignore me syndrome that some people have. You need to be at my beck and call but I'm my own person and will get back to...

Trust me, I know about this one.

If you persist with this relationship just now you will get seriously hurt.

She is not ready for a relationship with you and she has been honest about this. ...

I have a few questions.

Does she know who you are currently? I mean have you ever caught her eye, smiled at her, spoken to her at all?

I don't know what kind of workplace you're in. Are...

The fact that he doesn't respond to you is a very bad sign. Why would he do that if he was interested in you? Playing hard to get doesn't usually involve flat out ignoring someone.

I wouldn't...

Firstly, not all guys are this controlling and nor is this kind of behaviour exclusive to guys

Most people get a little jealous from time to time but this level of control and distrust seems...

Assuming you'd never do this again and that you regret it then I think the anguish you're feeling is all the penance you need to do.

I don't see any need to tell him. It's so long ago and meant...

Unrequited love can be a killer. It has the potential to waste vast chunks of your life and to eat up huge amounts of your emotional energy. It can be incredibly painful and give you nothing in...

There's a lot of detail we don't have which makes things difficult to comment.
We don't know how long you dated this girl whether you really loved her, how upset you were over the breakup etc. ...

There's no such thing.

You can be instantly attracted to someone, physically, sexually, stylistically, pretty much anyway you can think of but you can't be in love with someone that quickly.

If...

No, she didn't guilt me into returning. She ignored my 'are you ok?' messages for a few days and then sent me one which expanded into a brief but friendly exchange, then next day she said she was...