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As amy already said, she might just be looking for someone to listen to her. My roommate is like this. When she tries to talk to her fiance, he jumps into "fix it" mode and it just makes her madder....

It's hard to say, what was the nature of the slip up? Once? Twice? More than twice? One girl? More than one? How did they meet? What reason did he give for cheating? To me, that kind of stuff matters.

What about his behavior indicates he's trying to control her? My Grandfather was 11 years older than my Grandmother and the idea of him "controlling" her is hilarious. She ran the household with an...

You really expect him to jump that fast? Maybe he doesn't want to do anything tonight, maybe he's busy. The man probably has a life...



Not everything is about you, if you ever want to be in a...

I don't like tests either and I definitely prefer the direct route so I understand. But I agree with smackie that after he backed off, he was waiting for you to make the next move. I would have done...

She could use her words instead of her vagina, for starters. If she can't approach the guy and explain herself, he's not worth it. At the ridiculous pace he's moving, if he rejects an honest...

Are we seriously suggesting that she put out?...

Doooon't sleep with him, never sleep with a man to get him to stay! It won't ensure that he'll stay in the first place and you shouldn't have to put out to get a date.

I'm rather confused but it sounds like you are very young. You're building this other girl up in your head but it doesn't even sound like you know her all that well. If I'm correct in assuming this,...

As if your mumbo jumbo is easy to read...


"This is the first time I've seen such long sentences here. It's not attractive to read."


I'm assuming that's what you said? >.>

I don't think it had anything to do with the sleepover or lack of sex. I think there is an obvious difference between what you two want and it's probably not going to work out. He wants to move...

Splitting can also be easier on the kid if his/her home life is noticeably messed up. I can't imagine having this guy around constantly, never even attempting to seek help, is making your son's life...

Excuse me if I don't feel like kissing her ass because this "difficult situation" she's in is her fault; it takes two to have a baby but it only takes one to say no to having unprotected sex.

In...

I find it humorous that his "emotional cheating" seems to be a focal point but the fact that you outright screwed someone else is mentioned in passing. At that point, you should have broken up or at...

No, but women do.

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This. You didn't do anything to make him a coward, that comes naturally to wimps.

Dump him, take some time to yourself, focus on improving your own life. This loser won't bring you anything...

I wasn't apologizing... >.> As is, your OP was just agitating, it seemed like you were playing games because so much information was missing.

The reason it matters is because what you are actually...

It's not called being rude, it's called being blunt.

How are we supposed to give an accurate answer when that much information was missing? What you just said changes everything.

Leave him be...

Even if he does come back, I suggest you tell him to shove off. Don't beg, no more contact, even if he reaches out to you. You're stroking his ego by continuing to chase him when he obviously doesn't...

This is so stupid...

He asked for a month to figure things out but changed his mind shortly afterward. Why did you shut him down? The only reason you gave is, "But he asked for a month, it hadn't...

Um, no...just no...

I don't even...there are no words...

How is it lame? Are you seriously going to pass up saying hello to a girl because you saw her in the laundry room? My university has 18,000 students, the laundry room may be the only place you'll...

You can't prove A fast enough to list it as an asset. B is purely subjective. C is, again, something you can't prove fast enough. D is debatable given the way you talk about women here.

You didn't...

You keep mentioning looks. So are you saying that the primary reason someone likes you should be how you look rather than some aspect of your personality?

I didn't realize humor was linked so...

Thank you everyone. =)