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People often assume or accuse others of what they themselves are doing.
The other other explanation for her behavior would be if she has been hurt by cheating in the past and is paranoid about it.
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That's what friends do, they build each other up and love each other. Even if they aren't romantically interested in each other.

I don't believe in throwing away a good friendship like that,...

I'm not saying you're wrong to come here asking for help.
I'm actually trying to ask you to clarify what it is you really desire. It's easier to help you if we know what you really want.

I'll pray for things to go in whatever way is best for you.

Contact him and don't worry about what happens. If he is interested, great, give it a try.
If he's not, if he doesn't even respond,...

Well the question is, is that what you want? I get the impression you'd prefer to be satisfied being with a woman, if only you felt it was all you needed.
If that is the case, it is an achievable...

Bisexuality will wax and wane over time to different degrees. There's no hard and fast rule that says because you feel this way now you'll always feel that way.
The more you feed those feelings the...

It's not a hopeless situation, but you need to get her to realize that too in order for her to be motivated. She seems resigned to living the way she is and letting you leave to find happiness...

Great post francute. It's very true. I've been dealing with this myself lately, trying to seek first the kingdom of God, knowing that all will be given to me in due time.
I've been letting my desire...

It does sound like she's afraid of letting herself love and become dependent emotionally on someone else. It would take away the control she has being content on her own.
In which case you shouldn't...

My parents are in a very similar position as you, actually, so I understand. I've been trying to get on my mom's case for a long time now about needing to eat better, and my stepdad tries to get on...

We need more details to help. Like what you're doing that is causing problems. You're being too vague, I don't have a picture of what's really going on.

lmao, you only managed to confirm the way you come off as.

Not to be mean, but I don't think that attitude will sell.

Love CAN be built in 3 months.

And there are many who have gotten married who say they knew very early on this person was the one.

How would you know she's not really in love?

I've got those two books you listed on my amazon list, haven't gotten them yet. I'll let you know once I read them.

Part of it is that I'm shy.
But part of it is also that I am not the type to strike conversation for the sake of conversation even if I'm not shy with the person I'm with.
Unless it's something I...

I don't mind when two people aren't compatible. What worries me is finding someone who I'm highly compatible with but then blowing it somehow with attraction killing behaviors or speech, like letting...

I think you've got the right viewpoint on this situation.
I don't think the real question here is whether or not you should see him, but what to do about relating that to your parents. In which...

When she said she'd think about it, she already knew she didn't want to meet up a second time but didn't want to just say it in person right then and there.

I wonder if she actually wants to be...

Since you mention there being a spiritual connection:
Soul connections once established can remain for the rest of your life. I'd venture to say that all of them do, but some go dormant. Active soul...

It has nothing to do with race, how you're being treated.

I am a WASP who went to a WASP school and ended up being an outsider to most of my peers and treated in a similar way. Although that was...

Thanks, I know I'm suppose to feel that way, mentally I know it, I just don't feel it a lot of the time.
Is there a particular book or books you'd recommend? I wonder if a book is enough at this...

I have a physical reaction to rejection, like a stress reaction. And I'm tired of it. My blood pressure and heart rate go up, my heart feels like it's tied in a knot, my head is in a vise.
I need to...

I am just a quiet person.

I read a lot, follow the news, am smart, but I just don't engage in much conversation most of the time.

I can respond to conversation of the other person, but I dont...

By trying to force certain things for yourself, you may be missing what your real life path is.
Try to relax and pull back.
The things you want will probably come if you stop trying to force it.