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I think that her mother and father would be irate. And that's probably why no one would let them know because I guess he's become some type of "family friend" in their eyes. I told my gf that if I...

Thank you so much for this advice. I'll have to come re read this when I feel like letting them get to me.

Wakeup, I totally agree. I was saying that he violated her privacy by going in her room, he basically called her a slut by suggesting she would cheat as well. Here's the thing... I'm beginning to...

That's exactly what my gf said. That he's just trying to piss me off because he's a miserable person. I'll take your advice on trying not to let it effect me.

As for the sister, apparently they...

Thanks for the reply. I agree that I thought I was overreacting when I found out about the note. Just to be clear, I never said I was suspicious of her, it's a distraction that neither of us need. In...

I think I am going to have to talk to the sister and also have a chat with him. My gf says that he disgusts her and that she willnever allow him to be there when she's there. I do trust her that she...

Hi all, sorry for being long but necessary for perspective.

I'm hoping some of you can offer some advice on some issues that have popped up recently between my gf and I. We have been dating...

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She text me the other day asking if I would want to go out to dinner with her sister and brother in law the Friday after she gets back. She said she'd like me to meet her sister. OK, while...

Sounds like the girl that plays mind games with every decent guy she meets then gets screwed over by aholes all the time and complains to her friends that she can't meet any "nice guys".

I think you are right. Each day closer to her leaving is harder. She is still talking to me and wants to do something over the next day or so. I think I'm going to step out of her life for a bit and...

I think you are totally right as far as being honest. She even said "You don't have to put up with this and I don't want to hurt you." She says she broke up with him for lots of small things that...

I hear you and can appreciate that advice. But she asked me recently to meet some family members and has said other things that lead me on to think she wants something long term. Do I give her any...

That's a worry of mine too. And I wonder how he would feel if he knew she was seeing me up until the day she leaves. And yes we have a rather intense physical/romantic side to our relationship.

I thought about those things exactly and wanted to do that but.....I just can't seem to give up on her. I'm trying to look at the big picture and if I was in her shoes. I would want the other person...

Hi all,

I'll try to be brief but also lay out all the details since I need some rational outside perspective. I am early 30's male about a year divorced with 2 kids. I have dated pretty casually...