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Yes, I have a friend who has re-written and published Shakespeare's works, and he has offered (for small royalty cuts of course, which is great) to write a book about my cycle for me to then publish,...

22 Feb 15

It is a different kind of hard here at the moment. I have to admit to feeling quite lonely and a bit sad. Not nervous, worried and scared like before, sad types of feeling abound. And I...

Thank you, it is so hard to believe the difference from my first post at the end of October last year. I would never have believed I would be in this frame of mind right now. It feels great.

Having something to focus on has been a big help for me through this. Yes, my children have been the biggest focus, and having other things to focus on has been important also. The thought of being...

9 Feb 15

Nothing much has happened really, other than me feeling better as time goes by. The viewers didn't turn up sadly, but that's OK, it will happen. I am under 19 stone (265lb) now, and...

5 Feb 15

Viewing on the house tomorrow and they are really keen about viewing it, so lets hope it sells.

On Friday it was her birthday (No, I didn't get her a card) and we both went out...

Well the I talked with my therapist over the phone, and she told me that my wife would have no chance at all of getting me sectioned or even be convincing enough to make it look like it was me that...

dontaskme, yes and I understand that is what happened, she was turned away from talking about me or my health, but was advised that she could put things in writing. I will look into how she attempted...

Oh its real alright. I own the house and its in my sole name, but we are married and that's that. I never would have believed this stuff if I hadn't lived it, it really is the crazy. You should read...

29 Jan 15

Have just found out that my ex has tried to contact my doctor near where I live and has been turned away, but she has been asked to put her worries in writing to him. She is trying to...

24 Nov 15

It has been a week now since my last post, and things are very different here and with me. I have found I am much less interested in her, what she is doing, where she is going, what she...

16 Nov 15

Had a really interesting morning yesterday with my solicitor and therapist.

My solicitor instructed me to not move out of the house completely, as my wife could do all sorts of things...

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I must admit to being less than impressed with the support available for the abused in the UK so far. I am a disabled man, living in a home that I purchased in my sole name that has the access I...

As one more attempt at a stand while being here. I will be going to my local courts today to file an Occupation Order. My solicitor says this can be applied for in person and can be in force in no...

I didn't know that such a rule could exist with regard to who can stay in the house, that is a good point. I will have some words with my solicitor with regard to that. I have no doubt it would be...

Saw my therapist today and told her everything that had gone on the last month. She was shocked to say the least. She also told me I needed to make a plan of action before I left her office. She said...

Your right of course, and I have told my solicitor today that I would like her to start work on the divorce. I don't want her back and there is really no point in delaying any longer. Like you say,...

7 January 15

I have had an interview with Social Services as they had a report from the Police from myself, and the police had contacted Social Services. Social Services have offered their support...

To be honest with you Woody, my mind is now in a place where I do want to protect what is mine and to not just walk away. I am tired of walking away and tiptoeing around her in case I upset her. She...

It's 30 December, and as you might imagine, my mind is still all over the place.

I had a phone call from Social Services yesterday as they were concerned about me and have offered their...

This morning (yep Im still alive) I told she can stay in the house and I am moving out. Well, guess what, no surprises for some of you, she told me I was being selfish leaving her here in the house...

I arrived home today and have been staying with family the last 2 days. She was also due back today. I arrived home first, and I contacted the police again to let them know I was feeling nervous and...

It is Christmas day morning, and I feel I am done with all the fighting to keep a house. I am tired and worn down by it all, feeling I am going to have a nervous breakdown, stroke, or heart attack. I...

Oh dear, what a pickle. I went to the police station today to see what I could do about her telling me to get out of my house. I told him everything about my situation of course, and he said he had...