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I'm bumping. Because I'm impatient. And because I could really use someone's input on this.

I DO NOT think your expectations are too high. AND I think you will forever be unhappy if you settle for less... HOWEVER it is almost always necessary to compromise. So make sure you are never...

I'm curious how the paternity test came about?

Only because... if she legitimately thought the child was yours she may have already broken things off with the father.

I've never dealt with...

I had a friend who was crushing on me and I never even knew it. I was dating someone else. Well it ended poorly and he was there for me. After some sanity time he made his move and it was the best...

Sheesh, talk about bad timing.

So I was married for 4 years. We had a son and an already rocky relationship...and well...that's not a recipe for success. He had been a liar since day 1, of...

Thanks for the nice words.

I guess the reason the 'can't read him' thing bothers me because I've been lied to in the past by people. he's not indicated any of those traits but ...I think it...

oh no... completely misunderstood!

Were 'friends' in the beginning meaning mostly text, talk on phone etc. He kept asking me out, offering to help me with stuff etc because he wanted to hang...

I would be freaking out not knowing. I think i'd stress myself out as much as possible and try to trigger an outbreak! lol

But in all seriousness (actually I wasn't kidding...) I would...

So I've been dating this guy for a couple months after being 'friends' for a few months... (Long story I just didn't have time to date, had some personal stuff going on)

We've been having sex...

She may also be wanting more in bed and not sure how to communicate it, so she just shuts you out. ... just saying...

I agree... He may be unsure that he's everything you want in bed. He may also be fishing for something like "Oh honey I can't even think remember him anymore!" or whatever, like fishing for a...

There's nothing wrong with the passionate side but remember that each relationship is different. I firmly believe you can have it all. However, I had that drama passion you mentioned. I find the...

A lot of women, me included, have trouble balancing work/relationships. When she said she cant tolerate you getting upset because she has no time (forget exact words, sorry) it rang true to me. ...

I'm going to dare to disagree with wakeup. Lol

BUT I will say this...tone and attitude have alot to do with this situation. As does respect.

I'm dating a guy and he will often not answer his...

How long since your engagement fell apart?

Imo...you are not attracted to this girl. If you find her physically attractive it could be a mental block on your end. OR you could be...

Lol...thanks wakeup. Pretty much describes my personality.

I just want to add too... alot of people here are saying the problem is outside the bedroom...and its all related. For me personally,...

You need to give her some serious orgasms. And QUICK. Personally, my desire to have sex is directly related to how many quality orgasms he can give me.

Don't rely on your penis to have sex. ...

My take- she's so sneaky herself she doesn't trust you - because you could be doing the same things she is.

Does this mean she's a cheater? no. But a liar. By omission anyway, but some REALLY...

I've been lurking here for a while and finally decided to ask this question...

And I apologize upfront, because chicks might be the same way. I'm not, but I don't have alot of experience with...