I feel like u may be right....I guess I figured I'd be over that other thing by now but I just might not be...or at least hoped I'd be by now
I totally couldn't realistically expect her to wait...
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I feel like u may be right....I guess I figured I'd be over that other thing by now but I just might not be...or at least hoped I'd be by now
I totally couldn't realistically expect her to wait...
I don't think the fb thing is any sort of tactic really...just think she's prob excited and doesn't think it would bother me at all
I totally am not intending on interjecting....I totally plan to...
Wakeup...thanks for the reply
Believe it or not I actually did consider that....I actually looked at some of the characteristics of a narc/bpd....super intense, passionate, opinionated etc....and...
OK so a little over 2 years ago a relationship ended with someone with some bpd/npd....it had many highs and lows ....great moments and intensity....it didn't end perfectly the way I'd hoped it would...
even one based on lies can have beauty....times/memories....alot of good things.......hang in there guy
i used to love romantic/heartbreak songs....they were some of my favorite songs...so much emotion and passion even though they seemed cliche....temptations, stylistics,...anything...even that one...
so ive been hanging out alot with this girl the last few weeks...we initially met/started hanging out through a mutual guy friend....weve been going out to eat...hanging out at bars...i took her to a...
truth right there
this is as horrible as it gets....as others have mentioned you have to accept that she was ready to move on and just kept stringing you along....it happens alot....some people are scared to let...
so sad when you read this...and realize that you had those feelings for someone...yet you didnt do it...and thats probably all they wanted from you
cause tug...some people arent capable of genuinely loving someone else...they only truely love themselves....even if they are good at acting....my ex doesnt think shes selfish(in fact she thinks shes...
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its sad with the frequency in which it happens.....could never really figure it out or pinpoint the issue....why someone cant be straight up with you...i realize alot of girls have...
tug this is scary...because...there is NO difference....this girl had the same exact belief...one time were riding in the car having a talk and she goes "are you saved"? i said...."umm what" " are...
its all to real and familiar .....its funny how you talk about that bad childhood stuff...this girls uncle was married to be my best friends mother....he is the same way....well she was helping me...
if the breakup is done right....it shouldnt be much of a problem....even if one side is hurt alot more by it....like u said....see the person talk it out and be honest...even if it is going to hurt...
good for you...
ya we always miss the old them....and its hard when you know someone else is getting the old them....neither was she...not the same person and it sucked...kept hoping that person...
its scary how similar they sound
my ex was the type though...whom had 1200 fb friends...everyone knows her and wants to be her friend...shes gorgeous and charming as hell...but she has no real...
thats a shitty story man....and ya thats the saddest part man.....the sacrifices we made....the way our heart was true....for nothing....
and they always have to paint you as the animal and them...
i hear you tug....i do....my ex told me "i love and care about you...i want you to be a part of my life"....and in the end even if we werent together i wanted us to be friends...but what she did hurt...
i hear you tug...its hard....sometimes i wake up remembering how we first "fell in love"...how i killed a spider for her and fell asleep with my head on her chest and thats when she first knew she...
people are ****ed up tug...any type of cheating hurts...physical or emotional....mine was emotional...i wondered the kind of stuff that was being said behind my back....of course all i ever got was...
i can honestly say even though sometimes i felt like a rebound in retrospect...we lasted 2.5 years...and things were really good for 2 years....i have some of the sweetest notes and cards "you are...
sometimes were rebounds chief...and honestly they may develop a love for you....they love you for being there for them when their heart is in another place...they may even trick themselves into...
its possible...it just is....dont know why or how
been 13 for me...and it hasnt happened yet.....i still mull over the mistakes i made...it cost me dearly....i realize nobody is perfect but i loved her....even harder finding an old card from her i...