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So Im thinking about sending, "not wierd, just kinda hard for me thats all"



Actually... IDK what to send.. AHHHHHHHH I need advice guys!!!!!!!!!

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Been broken up for almost 6 months. Been NIC for about 5 months. During NIC she contacted me about once a week about pointless things and...

Yes. All love songs destroy me right now. Especially "our song"

I don't know.. I feel like it wont. But only time will tell...

Be the better person and don't give in to her games.
Just be yourself and worry about yourself.
Surround yourself with friends and start new hobbies. J

ust act totally mature about the...

It sounds to me like he is trying to move on or he is just indifferent and doesn't care at all.

In your case, hopefully he is trying to move on. There is no better time then now to better...

Any other opinions?

So a quick update.....

Ex contacts me like once every 3 days now or so. It is via text and is always about just random and pointless things.

I don't understand why she still texts me though? ...

Yeah man this has been my situation for the past few weeks. Ex will contact me out of the blue about something random and just to make small talk. It is really hard to puzzle together what her...

Im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry for everything. I can't believe how I treated you. You deserved sooooo much better then that. Thank you for giving me the chances to change. Aparently I...

I find exercising to help a lot. Go hiking or running or something.

Also, music has really helped me. (if its not sad/love songs)

Any success stories from someone from this site using this book?

If you honestly do want something more with her, as cmac said, I would talk to her and let her know how you feel.

Let her know you want to work on your relationship as whole and that you aren't...

So ever since our coffee get together she has initiated contact with me twice. The first was on Monday and just a simple facebook message telling me about something that just happened at her house. ...

OMG i just listened to this.. I crieeed sooo hard I honestly can't believe it.....

well thinking in terms of me, I cannot imagine how happy I would be if we were to get back together.

Comparing that happiness to the amount of pain that might still be to come, I think it is well...

Well, I am prepared to be just friends even though I know it is going to hurt if she starts seeing someone else.

But, being "just friends" with the women I love is a lot better then not having her...

Hey cmack...

I want something more like we had before... but I would settle as just friends if thats what she truley wants.


what do u mean about something is fishy??

I'm almost positive...

So today I called her to see if she wanted to get some coffee. (note: I did not call her out of desperation or because I'm trying to get back with her. It has been a month of very limited contact...