Work on yourself.
Hang out with friends, start dating when you are ready.
Find a hobby. END contact with your ex. No texting, calling, emailing, etc.
Type: Posts; User: Spaz1one1
Work on yourself.
Hang out with friends, start dating when you are ready.
Find a hobby. END contact with your ex. No texting, calling, emailing, etc.
Ok thanks. She said she's nervous as well, and she said she kind of wants it to be like a brand new thing. Like we never were together, and to start from the beginning. Cuz picking it back up just...
So today we got back together again.
And I was talking to my gf and she said she's scared,
She said she's scared because she feels like the relationships gonna go back to the way it used to be. ...
Well last night, she texted me "Ok sunshine I'm gonna give you your space to think but I hope we can work this out and I hope I can see you tomorrow. My life sucks without you, I can't live with...
I do want more.
I want to be with her more than ever, but I think I deserve better.
I just spoke with her and she told me that she thinks of me everyday and compares everything to me. And that she...
So instead of ignoring, I should text her how I feel?
So, It's been a month and a half since my ex dumped me.
For the first month or so, we had LC. I begged, pushed her away, she came back, nothing changed, she left again, etc.
Well we had NC for...
Indeed funny, lol.
But yeah, I think the primary reason for her not coming back is because sorta her rebound she has going on now.
She's pretty much "dating" someone from another city, and has only...
Good job.
But keep in mind the things that lead to the break up in the first place.
You both need to work on these things, or else this whole NC would have done nothing at all and the relationship...
This is my first without my ex. The last 3 were with her.
It feels so different and I feel so lonely.
Today, I'd be spending the night and day at her place, all lovey dovey and doing all that cute...
That's good to hear :)
I know that I have to move on and live my own life without her. And if it's meant to be, she'll come back on her own and will want to give it another shot. If she doesn't...
She has to WANT to give it another shot. And nothing else will ever change it. It has to be her strict decision to desire another shot with you.
All you can do is be yourself, work on yourself,...
It's been 7 days without contact..
I remember the last time we spoke on the phone, everything was fine pretty much. And she was doing her hair and said she'd call me back. And it's been a week and...
Don't let it get to you.
Believe it or not, your friends are just trying to be there for you.
They probably havn't been in the same situation as you have, so they wouldn't know what exactly would...
I deff feel this way.
I know a good friend of hers, and I know tonight they're going to the movies to watch Dear John.. haha.
But find something to do, find your friends or family and hang out with...
Yes, I'm down.
But ... That can be pretty risky lol. There's alot of crazy people here :)
How old are you, by the way?
It actually does help alot. Last year when my ex and I broke up, (we got back together but are broken up again), I went to Miami for a week and it relieved soooo much stress.
What are you waiting...
Ok, suicide is definitely not an option. Life ALWAYS gets better. Perhaps this is just one of those periods of times when everything seems wrong. Be strong, my friend, everything will turn out...
Just don't get your hopes up, please.
The more you expect, the more you get disappointing. Less expectation, less disappointment.
And I'm pretty sure you're not the only one that needs to...
Yes,
and please don't come looking for advice if you're not going to take it!
I would always look for advice and I would NEVER EVER take it. I would always think my judgement is best. But guess...
If she doesn't contact, then obviously she doesn't miss you enough to contact.
What would you rather have happen?
You initiate contact, and get her to talk to you
OR
Her initiate contact, and...
I say still don't contact...
Honestly, if she wants to talk to you, she'd contact you first.
If you contact her, it'll just reassure her that you're needy and it'll just boost her ego. Girls love...
Just make sure you show no weakness if she does decide to break up with you.
Be mature, talk things out perhaps, and agree with the breakup and accept the fact that it's probably for the best right...
Astrology is pseudoscience.