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    Well the hi part I'm cool with. I will not change...

    Well the hi part I'm cool with. I will not change my social settings because of her however, in spite of likely being bothered by her if I see her. I am not broken hearted over it, just dissapointed...
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    No contact is the plan. But do I ignore her as if...

    No contact is the plan. But do I ignore her as if I never knew her when I see her in public some time in the future?




    QUOTE=Wakeup;741661]Don't torture yourself by entertaining thoughts of...
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    We met for dinner last night. In the end, she...

    We met for dinner last night. In the end, she reminded me how I remind her of her father so much (facial expressions, hands etc.) and that is one reason she can't feel intimate towards me she says...
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    OK, I spent this week away. And very few texts...

    OK, I spent this week away. And very few texts went back and forth during the week. (She forgot my birthday but doesn't surprise me as I am getting to see this woman is self absorbed by her busy life...
  5. Man I feel for you. You do need to get out of...

    Man I feel for you. You do need to get out of this toxic relationship and work on your issues. (we all have them.) I am reading 10 things that ruin a man's life by Dr Laura S. There is some good...
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    Um, there is a male side of me that wants to...

    Um, there is a male side of me that wants to help, thus perhaps be a White Knight. I am trying to not be emotionally invested (or avoid being too wrapped up) in her, by not calling her in the same...
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    Honestly, I am not out to break hearts, I know...

    Honestly, I am not out to break hearts, I know the feeling and i don't want to impose that pain on someone. I am also not trying to uphold an image in front of my ex.

    Yep, no more possessive...
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    There wasn't an emotional roller coaster before,...

    There wasn't an emotional roller coaster before, but I will proceed cautiously now that I know her better.

    I do use a similar line with the women who ask me about "why don't you have a...
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    In Vino Veritas

    Well,

    This is the original thread.

    http://www.loveforum.net/ask-female-forum/55567-i-feel-like-she-kicked-me-nuts-still-took-high-road.html

    Bottom line, and I shouldn't have....yes i...
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    It is not posted here. There were $$ issues, and...

    It is not posted here. There were $$ issues, and frankly my ex was imature and emotionally abusive at times.
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    OK, be honest, How old are you? you have to be...

    OK, be honest, How old are you? you have to be in your early 20s. This bird hasn't left yet. She will leave when I determine it is time for me to move on and find some one a better fit.
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    Good one. I have worked really hard at...

    Good one. I have worked really hard at controlling my emotions/fears etc. and be less aggressive and more understanding, patient, (always assertive) My ex wife called me a terrier while we were...
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    I think you have to continue to grow as a person....

    I think you have to continue to grow as a person. Experience things so you can continue to become more aware about the world, and those around you. For example, Some women are very impressed that I...
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    I side with you here. There are other...

    I side with you here.

    There are other factors that are taken into account when a good guy may not cut it, a girl may be looking to

    be kept as a princess (example) and upheld to a lifestyle...
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    Wrong assumption. When we first got together I...

    Wrong assumption. When we first got together I told her I wanted a clean slate. That she had to be over her last relationship. I am not her rebound.
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    You make good sense of your threads. I side with...

    You make good sense of your threads. I side with your opinions BTW. I am a good guy. Last night I had dinner with a lady friend (who is very obvious she is interested in me) and paid for dinner. She...
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    This thread is tunring out comical. In my 20s...

    This thread is tunring out comical.

    In my 20s (I got married at 28) I had my share of women by being emotionally unavailable, and a bit selfish (I was considered good looking, a leader amongst my...
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    Being Good to your woman

    Ladies, when a man is a:

    gentleman
    thoughtful
    shows caring through acts: cooking for you, buying you little gifts, going out of our way to make sure you are comfortable: ie if we go to the beach...
  19. There is a lady who is interested in me. Very. 2...

    There is a lady who is interested in me. Very. 2 nights ago we went out and had a couple of drinks, danced, had a good time. Last night I went to our Sunday salsa place with friends, (the lady who I...
  20. Well 2 weeks later I am no longer sad but call me...

    Well 2 weeks later I am no longer sad but call me crazy. I still think about her and miss her not having her in my bed some nights of the week. :( I am sticking to my no contact rule and so is she....
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    HOW did she break up with you? Did you have a...

    HOW did she break up with you? Did you have a role in it?
  22. The ex wife is a good friend, but while I go to...

    The ex wife is a good friend, but while I go to her for things relating to live and learn situations, I DON"T ask her for advice on future partners, she gives it of courses, but I don't listen. LOL....
  23. HA HA. I will have to wait for this one. During...

    HA HA. I will have to wait for this one. During our dinner date, maybe it was the cocktails talking but she is interested in flying to LA and we talked about doing a salsa cruise (yes salsa Cruise)...
  24. I am 40. The date went fine. We had a fun chat...

    I am 40. The date went fine. We had a fun chat over dinner and hit up the 4 seasons roof top bar. The bar scene is really not my thing so I left after 1 drink. She knew a bit of people. She asked...
  25. Dating a girl much younger than me, casual, for fun

    I am going to dinner with a cute girl who is in her mid 20s. Any risk? Just having fun. My ex wife, (LOL) says that it is bad news.

    She says that the girl thinks I am 32, and have money, and are...
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