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So I've been broken up with my ex for over a year and a half now. The break up was quite difficult for me, but I've grown for the most part over it.

I haven't dated since then, so it's probably...

thats all relative, black and white thinking, people get together despite a whole bunch of shit and stating that one view point is the right one is just close minded. It may be immature to party, but...

well you ****ed up by getting shit faced, but everyone does when they have fun, it's that age, people here need to stop being so ****ing self righteous.

What you really need to do, is demonstrate...

does it really count as a bf if its online?

Well there are kind of a few evident things there when you talk about it.

First you say "allowed to go anywhere" I understand your point but subconsciously to convey that type of word when talking...

i think i would prevent George W. from being born

Also to address the point of this topic, I mean who doesn't want a second chance in fixing all the shit we did, but I mean honestly what good is...

she left you for him, most likely they were seeing each other when you were together, forget her, cause someone who couldn't communicate their issues when they were happening, only to slap them in...

Well during the time of the break up it was

Break Even by The Script

then I thought about my situation and I thought

Over My Head by The Fray

Was where I was at the time

I think I'm just going to walk away from this, and I advise others to do the same.

At this point, he is a lost cause, and I don't feel bad saying that.

Sorry bud, got bigger things to worry...

omg....your the real ****ing deal...the psycho self pitying obsessed dude who can't accept whats happened...I thought you were a troll...but omg your posts and dates.......jesus your the real...

successful troll was successful, he was a good one though ._. kind of scary

I thought so too XD, I certainly hope he is, if not then this is all rather scary

You know what I find most irritating about this despite all our advice and I'm pretty sure in-depth experience in having their heart's broken, and have had WORSE experiences then your weak ass.

Is...

there is no right answer to what you should do...but...if you love her...then follow your heart man, even if it's bad...that way you know you tried with what you felt and believed in...

I meant more along the lines live his life a little more happily during the birthday and not fixate on her, then deal with the healing afterwards

nah she is two faced but not a slut, it was my fault pretty much she left, but yeah it's two sides always

I know how you feel, been there a few months ago, waited a year to see her, dumps me on new years, refuses to see me to talk things out, then dates her best friends ex who i knew she was digging...

you obviously didn't read what I said, I'll make it clear LET GO OF HER

Not everything you do needs to be centered on how she will react or what she will do, because at this rate you'll delete it,...

dude you need to delete her not because of that, but because your still hung up on her 7 months down the line, especially after she moved on, if you want to stay sane lose contact with her, delete...

Damn, with this kind of thought you might as well just stop doing anything, I mean you're so stuck in the thought of suffering that your refusing any other idea, and substituting it with your own...

it's so she can process everything and go about her daily life without looking back on how she feels about you every second, kind of like removing you to sort herself out, everyone does it, you need...

Sometimes man, we fall in love with the wrong people and its all terrible. I know how much it hurts, but I'll be honest...there is NOTHING you can do to change it, you should hate her because of what...

your right it's unstable, but wouldnt it be better to surprise her in a nice none creepy scary way, before she came back, then her to have to take the step to approach you when she has to return to...

Words aren't enough, small passive things aren't enough, do you love this girl?!?!? Do you feel for this girl?!?! Then actions brother actions!!!! Go ****ing show her how you feel, we been all saying...

I suppose the two options given were, no contact at all, or full engagement, I mean both have downsides and plus so it's up to you in the end

edit: also I like the idea of giving some time to pass...