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Thankyou so much for your replies!

I feel i am nearly at the bottom, if not already there.. A few weeks ago he hit me in the face after we fought. He blacked my eye, it was swollen, protruding...

I dont understand, i am SO unhappy with my boyfriend, i day dream about meeting the right man who will want to be in a long term and take the next step with me, yet i find it SO hard to leave him.
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Thankyou for the replies, that makes a lot of sense. I think i really do need to learn how to exit a situation/relationship when it gets to the point of unhealthy. I guess i am really picking the...

After a few incidents in my life, i havnt trusted people very easily.

My first 'love' cheated on me, my daughters father also did. At 18 i found out the man i thought was my dad...really wasnt....

I think i am mostly afraid of being alone to be honest, im fearful of going to work, coming home, doing my duties then being left alone when my daughter goes to bed.. I dont really know what to do...

Its easier said than done to find balance between the both of us. I feel i do a lot for him. I do, i know i do. Everybody sees what i do for him. My partner doesnt really do anything for ME other...

Thats what i told him today, that last night and this morning showed me exactly what i was worrying about.. He then pretty much told me how annoying i am to be around, how he cant be with me anymore...

Thanks for all the advice, it is greatly appreciated.

I thought long and hard about the advice i received here, i see that shouldnt be doing everything the way he wants it.. My best friend is...

This is what i worried it could be about... But we came so far from that horrible situation we were in, we havnt fought like that in a long time and he hasnt done anything to that extreme since i...

lol I just added that because when i read over it, it just seemed like i freaked out about it..Which i really didnt at first. But i reacted in the wrong way when he mentioned thats how he wanted his...

Oh and when i did see it the first time. I was shocked, but we did have a good laugh about it, kissed abit i had a look around ;) It wasnt a big deal until he said the things he did.. He just came...

Thankyou so much for your help. I admit, i dont know how to communicate too well, my dad used to tell me that all the time. I find myself shutting down easily too if i dont feel like i am being heard...

This is what i desperately want.. I want to talk to him, find out what he feels and wants. I know he has problems concerning our relationship, i know he is starting to act unhappy. I am too.. I...

Around 2 and a half years now.

Im sorry.. i just need someone to go to for help... I have so many things i want to know how to handle my relationship.. How to communicate in the best possible way to him so we dont take things in...

lol Thanks. I wish i was harsh enough to earn the title bitch. Because believe me, sadly im not.
I do everything i can to keep my man happy, i compromise everything so we are both happy with the...

Thankyou for the reply, this is what i was fearing. I did think i was making something out of nothing.. But it doesnt feel that way.. That was his reply and answer he gave me.. But other things he...

Thanks for the reply, we are both 21 years old. I have had gotten an inclin before that he is very selfish.. Just some of the things he does, is always thinking about himself in a way... But i...

My partner and I are having quite a strange disagreement, it seems like a silly petty fight to close friend who i have told. Maybe it is, but it is really getting on my nerves.
I wanted to come...

Thanks everybody, i have realised its not the end of the world if im not with him. Ah,i mean, it upsets me to no end that he is like this. I feel now that i have been stopping him from being bad to...

Thankyou. :( I feel really upset about it, it just makes me sick to my stomach and i hate it, i wish i wasnt here sometimes. I cant imagine life without him, i cannot ever imagine me not loving him....

I know :( I should have known he wouldnt change. I dont understand why i believe that he wants to try and be good to me during our 'honeymoon phase'...
I told him today. I told him that i didnt...

That makes so much sense to me..

I just hate that he has to be like this, maybe i am just dreaming and hope he will change.. I think i might tell him today, that i am moving without him. It's...

Ugh.. :( That made me cry.. That is exactly like us, exactly how we work..

I just dont get it.. I just cannot get it though my head that, that is how he does this. Like.. I cant actually believe...

This is how i usually feel. I usually feel like i know its not right, like i know he's never going to change and that i am wasting my time. But now i am actually doing something about it, something...