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You've already been flirting with her, you've got her to laugh and you got her attention. Texts...are too impersonal and not a good indication of much, there's too much of a disconnect with texting....

I would have to say, actually initiating the flirting and fearing that I'm not going to get any flirting back. Its subtle rejection, and it sucks.

I believe that people will have feelings for others no matter what kind of relationship they're in. Even if you're in a committed relationship, you'll find someone you connect with and have feelings...

I can only say, that it happened to me, but the girl did have a slight overbite, so it was hard to avoid. Other then that, kissing normally did not involve teeth. You're doing fine, it was the first...

Take it slow, and don't jump into it. You don't have to bear your soul to her or anything, I mean how long have you known this girl? Do you think she has any interest in you in the same way? I've...

Well, I don't think there's any harm in you calling her again. Give it a few days, find out what you want from all of this, and then talk to her. You obviously still feel that spark, but be wary. It...

Okay, I'm a little overwhelmed by all these posts, I've been trying to catch up because I find this subject fascinating.

I understand the negative stigma attached to video games, its been there...

Heh, what an interesting combination, a musician, a gamer, and an author. I think I may have met my female doppleganger.

Wow, sounds very fascinating and very original. I wish you luck on your book, I look forward to reading it someday.

Well, I believe you should leave it be and move on. No good can come from it.

I was under the impression that he understood what you wanted from the relationship. But it seems to me, that he doesn't want to lose his freedom, his ability to do things on his terms. Its almost...

I think guys are assholes because they see it works for other guys who are. Its a dog eat dog world, and if the competition are getting the girls of their dreams by being assholes, then well...guys...

Oddly enough, doesn't it go both ways? Aren't women err...girls(?)...just as cryptic about breaking up with a person? Either way, people in general are afraid of conflict and do their best to avoid...

I've had a similar situation in which I had to initiate the conversation with a girl that I was really into. She wouldn't talk, but it was because she was a listener. She preferred to listen, and it...

Well first off, you haven't established anything in terms of relationships. I don't even know how you have an in between kind of relationship. But I think you are jumping the gun pretty quick about...

Wow, well...not having had any in awhile, I'm mildly envious, but you're only going to dig yourself into a hole if you keep seeing her. You'll continue to feel more and more for her, and she'll just...

Well, I've found out recently myself that young women aren't ready to settle down. Its better that you know now about her reservations to marry you, and of her "mood" swing from loving you to not...

I feel you, man. Having had my fair share of long distance relationships, I know how tough it can be, and I understand her reasoning. Its hard to fight the feelings, and you technically shouldn't....

You should really give her some space, let her do what she needs to do. If she means what she says, she'll get back to you, if not...then you know where you stand. Either way, you can't control what...

I think you should combine both of their ideas, girl68 and lastwish. Get him a pick, engraved or unengraved, and do any time other than the actual party. He'll most likely be flattered, and you can...

I think you should just be glad you got some, and move on immediately.

Well, from what you're saying, I can't imagine anything coming out of it. She flirts because she likes the attention, as mentioned, and she knows she can get the attention of horny guys. Its a road...

Now the guy is bordering on obsessive compulsive, at least with the balcony fence thing. Maybe because its a first impression kind of thing. Maybe he's trying to impress you with how nice his balcony...

Yeah, exactly about six months. It happened mid January after a trip. And now I'm kind of lost, not sure where to go or what to do.

Well, in either situation, someone has to change. Can't you both come to a compromise? I mean as long as he's just tidy and a neat freak with his stuff, and not yours, would that be so bad? As for...