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He only hit me twice. Unless you have been in any situation where violence has happened you can never understand. My last bf did alot worse and I mean alot worse. I know there is no excuse for...

The thread will never die. As long as there is women, men and porn and insecurities there will be this thread. lol.

At least I feel better now.

What I have learnt:
- Lying about watching...

Btw I do everything sexually for him Bigblak. Since my post we have had alot of sex all dif kinds. Im coming to terms with him watching porn. The problem was him not touching me that much so i just...

If the tables were turned would he be ok with it? If not then he shouldnt expect you to be ok with it.

Yes one boy

Ive just lost any hope.

I've asked for a counsellor but it has taken about 3 weeks so far and havent heard anything yet. I'm so ad it is unbelieveable. He keeps asking me what has he done and I'm just too scared to say what...

It isnt as bad as it sounds.

Exactly...when I use a vibrator my bf got a bit off with me. Stopped doing it for him and he uses porn I get a bit off about it and he's like no I'm not giving it up. Men!!

I think if i was getting my intimacy id be happier. Also id still be a bit weird about the porn but not as much.

I was abused everyway in my last relationship and think its messed me up. I feel like i have to be perfect or hell leave like he did or hurt me. My now bf has hit me once or twice and now i feel its...

I never said i wanted him to stop as i know he wont.

We fart and i never fall asleep having sex...lol I dont care what type he watches either. Its more a case of why then what.

Youve made me feel worse. You basically just said hes bored of me sexually and he needs to look at other women to get turned on.

Ive watched porn. I just dont feel the need in a relationship as i...

I don't have any idea what will help. Maybe if I believed I was beautiful and hot or just was those two things I wouldnt be a bothered. I've so far lost over 30lbs but need to lose a bit more. I...

After not having sex for a long time I'll have forgotten what sex is, porn, anything to do with all of it...lol

I get that I do, but it doesn't stop me from not liking it. I wish I had a magic wand to stop be thinking and feeling the way I do.

I suppose you wouldn't.

I thought you were being rude. It is easy for things to get misinterpretated over the internet.

Why are you so bothered? Its not like im your gf. Lol.

I think you are totally right. I feel my relationship growing colder because we dont have sex enough.

My bf needs more cuddles than me and i need more sex. So might be a bit true.

In a poll in a newspaper apparently hugs a kisses are more important. They still need sex but its not the main thing

I have coping skills. Just not very well in this case. I have dealt with alot. You cant only judge me on this reaction.
If i wasnt coping well i would be a mess right now and screaming at my bf. Im...

What? Youve lost me.

I am working on it. Going to counselling by myself, reading books...etc

It still doesnt help that hed rather look at porn than have sex with me.