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I posted this about three months ago: http://www.loveforum.net/threads/59193-I-wonder-if-I-let-the-one-go?p=761321&highlight=#post761321

It's been more than a year since the whole thing happened...

Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement!! I really appreciate it and I definitely feel better. I know what I'm going to do - stop comparing myself to my friends and start concentrating...

It's ok....I was just trying to explain the situation as best as I could - I wasn't trying to be catty or arrogant or anything. Sorry if it sounded that way.

It's partly not finding the right guy and partly not having guys pawing at me. I know what the problem is (I hear it all the time from my sister and best friend). I'm too introverted. I'm really...

I just turned 27 and am kinda feeling depressed. There were two things that I wanted to do before turning 28: go to grad school and get married and I dont' think I'll be able to do either yet. When...

I don't know why now....I just can't stop thinking about him. He's always on my mind. I think it's because I really liked him. We were good together. I don't know if he'll be different. I know...

OMG! That's not true! I waited 3 months before I saw someone. I didn't have someone lined up and waiting!! And yes, I emailed him a few days after he left but he never answered. That's why I was...

No, I definitely wasn't a summer/temporary girlfriend. We were exclusive and I know he was serious about the relationship......I'm 100% sure about this. You're right.....his home country does have...

Ouch, that was harsh! How could he have gone 3 weeks without contacting me? Of course I was upset!!

One year, I met a great guy. We were a good couple and most of our friends agreed. We were both alike and really understood each other. Things were great for about 4 months at which point he went...

Thank you so much everyone! This is exactly what I needed. I'm going to break up with him tomorrow. There are probably tons of better guys out there and I'm sure I'll meet someone who wants to be...

Yeah, that's what I thought. I was just a rebound. :(

However, ever since we had this talk, I've completely backed off. No more texting or calling and I've noticed that the more I back off,...

So here's the short version of the story: met a great guy, things were going great and he even brought up marriage (not me!). He never formally proposed but we discussed it. When we met, he already...

You're right....I agree with you which is why I didn't break up with him. I guess the only thing that's worrying me is that 3 years is a long wait but then again, perhaps it's a good chance for us...

Sorry....my fault. By 'committment', we're talking marriage. We'd talked about it but now he's saying he wants to stay together until we're done with school (which is about 18 months for me and 3...

I agree.....as long as it doesn't become an LDR, what's wrong with staying together? If we're meant to stay together, we'll stay together and if we're meant to break up, we'll break up regardless of...

This is exactly what's confusing me! Why the heck would he want to keep me around if he can't commit? When he told me all this, I asked him if he wanted to break up and his exact words were "No. I...

I don't think it'll become an LDR. There's a very small chance (maybe 10%) of that happening. We'll most likely stay in the same city.

My boyfriend and I have a pretty good thing going (or so I thought). When we met, he didn't have plans for grad school which is why marriage seemed to be the next obvious thing. However, now he's...

My bf's birthday is coming up and I'm going to give him a CD of romantic songs....some of his favorites, some of mine and some that we both love. I also want to put some songs that we don't normally...

To be honest, I don't think he's insecure. I think he does this because he bosses people around at work all day and sometimes, he forgets to leave that attitude at work and brings it home with him. ...

You're right; he's definitely the dominating one in the relationship. Besides, he's so much bigger than me (I mean physically) that even if he weren't dominating, I'd probably give him control...

Hmmm...so this is normal behavior for a guy? Then I guess I was right for not being upset.

What about the recent incident? Should I be upset that he didn't text me the entire time he was home? Like i said, I know he was really busy and everything but still....not a single text or phone...

Thank you for a straightforward and sensible answer. To be honest, I've never thought about leaving him over this. If I look at all the good things about him, this one bad thing doesn't seem to be...