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After a year and a half he is drifting into the zone of taking your relationship for granted. Not unusual and always tricky. It's a stage many couples go though. Only you know if your relationship is...

The whole thing is generalized rubbish! To say women only go for the attractive males is just a mirror of the whinger who wants a hot girl and won't give the plainer Jane a second look! There's...

I agree you have a lot to think about in this situation and it's obvious you are a caring person or you would not be thinking several steps ahead of the situation. It could very well boil to an...

I must say it is difficult to post when the site keeps loggin me off and i lose everything. Is there any chance that will be fixed? Is it happening to otheres?

I think Bullrush would make a good moderator, always has constructive posts and is loyal to the site. perhaps you should reconsider, KingZ. It certainly seems like you need some help and who better...

May I just say I personally think this is a great site BECAUSE of the people who give so much time to it. You do actually help people here. And the openminded way you generally support, judge and...

I sort of agree with Searock. I'm Australian, so I don't think it's cultural, just courtesy and less confusing. One at a time is good fishing!

One only plays the field IN the field! That is,...

Certainly, you have dependancy issues and perhaps that is why you are a target for his sarcasm, because you do the doormat and don't earn his respect by standing up for yourself.

But you know...

Yes. It's even possible that youg love is the only 'real' love. or at least the only love that has the extremes of hope, passion and wonder strong enough to alter our paths and build forever on. It...

At the risk of repeating myself, it is the the virgin hangup that's just making a mystery/mountain of it all and you need to end the mystery. Stop being everybodies entertainment, the minute you lose...

PS. I meant to say "providing you can foget about your own 'coming' Jezus, and learn how to give the girl an orgasm BEFORE you penetrate, then you can be sure they'll forgive you ANY other bloopers."...

So I have no idea what NLP stands for in American folklore, but assume it is yet another self help technique? I am from OZ and a great grandmother of 11. So, no, I'm not a virgin. But I was once and...

Your English is confusing and your explanation doesn't make any sense. I get that you are tired of girls who only want sex from you and they bore you. You are ready for a deeper relationship and this...

Hmm, contradictions abound in your post. You sound like a perfectly normal, rather shy young girl, a little flustered and excited by the prospect of a new romance, but then you state it's 'just sex'....

I wasted thirty years on a husband such as you are describing. They sulk! like self centred chidren when the world doesn't understand them, use biting sarcasm and really expect their opinions to be...

(Sigh) I didn't know what I was doing before, now I'm up the creek without a paddle. So if I click on the star thingy to say thanks does that let the person know I said it? Where?

What in God's...

Mmm, I agree, up to a point. Speech can ruin the moment when it comes to the clinch. Men who have a mouth free for comments aren't doing it right.

...Er.. sorry Bulrush, I forget I'm talking to Yanks here. 'Chook' is OZ for 'chicken' and I guess 'over-puckered' is the better description.

Kissing, as I recall, was one of the greatest joys of...

Mmm, But there are definitely guys around who don't know how to kiss, so I assume that applies to females too. And there is nothing quite so frustrating as an unsatisfactory kiss. I mean when you...

Well. Clap,Clap, Clap. Indireloaded, Bcgirl and Wakeup! So what's going on with the 'thanks' button? and it keeps throwing me off, says I have 'exceeded the posts I'm allowed to view' ??? then I have...

I agree with smackie9. I never heard anyone sound less in love than you! Definitely don't marry this girl. You are tired of the relationship and marriage does not make anything better. plus, you...

Certainly sounds like he's cooling off, but maybe he's just 'backing off' because youare 'closing in'. That is, you are sounding a little desperate and handing out a few ultimatums. Not that I think...

Umm, two minds about it. On the one hand, intense attraction tends to override any other consideration in life and 6 weeks is a bit too long to be circumstantial (if he was hot for you he'd be on...

Duh......?????

Its called reverse psychology, oldest attention seeking trap in the world. The vain, egotistical types make a big deal about running themselves down, Like, "Oh, I'm so awful! boo hoo, poor me, you...