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ok -- so she texted me the other night to see if i was going out. keep in mind, i haven't talked to her since that last weird text i mentioned in the first post. i told her i was going out with some...

So do i contact her again or no?

OK --

So I've been hanging out with this girl. about the 3rd time we hang out she cooks me dinner at her place. After a few glasses of wine, her openly discussing her sex life with me, and some...

yep, all fellas are different. i'm a lot like you're current BF. i'm usually good to go about 5 minutes after unless it was just a crazy crazy wild orgasm that left me heaving. when that happens i...

haha -- or you could just tell him that if he spanks you, you'll spank him... and i don't mean his bottom. =P

i'm sure he'll come around to the idea REALLY fast.

so what do you do if you've gone out with a guy for a few weeks, done a few things, and haven't broached the subject?

I agree with doppel. shouldn't have made the move so quickly, even if it was getting hot and heavy. that being said, you can still salvage this situation. just don't bring it up and don't try...

my mistake -- i thought she was still a freshman in high school. that makes more sense.

still, i think this guy is creepy for eyeing freshman girls.

don't worry about finding out. he's a teacher, and his relationship with you should be ONLY professional. another way to think about it, what would you think if he was stalking one of your close...

so when do you ladies feel as though you're in a "relationship?"

there's a lot of different things to consider... is it when you kiss, hold hands, give him a BJ, have sex, etc.?

for example,...

i've been with many a beautiful woman that i quickly found unattractive due to their shallowness, personality, different interests or beliefs. i'm not proud of it, but it's the reality. beauty is...

doppelgaenger -- i agree with you in premise. sex isn't dirty, and shouldn't be viewed that way. it's a beautiful and enjoyable thing. but at the same time, i wouldn't feel bad if someone told me...

you should feel great about having a great personality and interests that guys are attracted to. the same cannot be said of a lot of women. don't fret about your looks so much. you are you, and...

don't feel bad at all, and don't feel like you have to have sex just because you've been dating for 6 months. it sounds like he doesn't mind not having sex (unless he's brought it up to you...

Smileyface -- please please please be careful. this man has RED FLAGS written all over him. if he's interested in you it is only for him to fulfill some foolish fantasy. this guy is creepy, weird,...

when in doubt... don't bite. i wouldnt want someone biting down on my penis, so i think the same can be said of nipples. it's ok sometimes, but as a general rule i only go for nibbling and...

Some men lose it more quickly than others. Learn how to control his hardness... in other words, over time you'll understand his body language and know when he's getting close to that point. Back off...

Men like to display dominance, and spanking is definitely a way to do that. Trust me, he'll be happy you asked. Just make sure he doesn't get too carried away. You don't want any bruises.... or do...

To the OP -- I would also like to submit that you try the following:

As you said, you've done the caressing / gentle and the roughy and heavy. Why not give her a little of both. Take a special...

do you like this new guy?

i feel like a lot girls discount the good things that are happening in their lives TODAY because of feelings they had in the PAST. not to say that those feelings aren't...

good point. think i just needed someone to remind me of that.

no, not the first. i've had sex, but its always been in a relationship that developed over time. just hope she doesn't think of me poorly for making a move, or that she thinks she's a tramp, cause i...

vashti -- you've got a point. but how do you make it non-exclusive without coming off like a complete player?

devon -- good point. i don't know why i feel so bad about it

i think you're over analyzing the situation a bit. you said it yourself that you're not in a relationship with either woman, right? thus, neither needs to know that information. however, at some...

i guess you're right... i mean it makes sense. i've never had a one night stand or casual sex, so i suppose that's why i feel dirty. how do i go forward and see her again without increasing the...