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    ex contacted with request

    I was in a relationship with someone (long distance) that ended last year. It caused me a lot of pain and this year has been a real struggle. When she ended it she said she wanted friendship, etc. At...
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    Ex contacted with request

    I was in a relationship with someone (long distance) that ended last year. It caused me a lot of pain and this year has been a real struggle. When she ended it she said she wanted friendship, etc. At...
  3. Yeah, I've felt this way. I drank myself stupid...

    Yeah, I've felt this way. I drank myself stupid plenty of times. Ultimately I don't want that. I want a better life. We have to go after what we want. Make the changes we want to see.

    BTW,...
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    Keep it professional. Stop it before it starts.

    Keep it professional. Stop it before it starts.
  5. I always remembered special occasions. I think I...

    I always remembered special occasions. I think I tended to make a bigger deal out of it than my ex did. I can't speak for other guys but I think it can work both ways. It just depends on the...
  6. Thread: LDR advice?

    by billfever
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    I was in a LDR. We were never "official" in her...

    I was in a LDR. We were never "official" in her eyes but in the beginning we texted, called, skyped all the time. It was part of our daily routine. Over time it got less and less but we still...
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    have not moved on

    I've written about the relationship I was in before on this site so I won't go into the details. I just don't understand why I can't get over her. Why am I still stuck on someone that let go of me?...
  8. I'm not so sure you messed up. You might be a...

    I'm not so sure you messed up. You might be a little needy/clingy and I say this because I did the same thing. With my ex I would get upset if she didn't respond to my texts or calls. I would...
  9. If you still have feelings for her then do...

    If you still have feelings for her then do whatever you can to make it work. You are getting a rare second chance. I was in a long distance relationship and she ended it and never looked back. I...
  10. Thread: friends?

    by billfever
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    friends?

    I've posted once (in a different forum) about a LDR I was in. We met online and got to know one another for about nine months before meeting in person. We then spent nearly a year making trips to...
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    I'm stuck myself. I was with a woman and she...

    I'm stuck myself. I was with a woman and she left me last year and I'm still lost and in love with her. I started seeing a therapist and basically talk to anyone that will listen (online, offline)...
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    I would say move on. I was in a situation with a...

    I would say move on. I was in a situation with a woman that looked and felt very much like a relationship but she always said we were not a couple. Yet, we slept together, fought, etc. She...
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    I was with someone (in a LDR) that said they...

    I was with someone (in a LDR) that said they loved me and all that. Then she ended it, told me she never loved me. Well, I couldn't let go and held on for a long time. She would call me at times,...
  14. Thread: Trust no one

    by billfever
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    I'm in the same situation. It sucks.

    I'm in the same situation. It sucks.
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    This is a big move and would cause stress to...

    This is a big move and would cause stress to anyone. I used to live in San Diego and moving to Dallas is going to be a big change so it's normal to be apprehensive. I think Melancholia made a good...
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    Pull back from texting and see how she responds. ...

    Pull back from texting and see how she responds. I understand how you feel. I was much the same with my ex. Right now she expects you to contact her. Don't initiate contact and just see how she...
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    Thank you for your reply I appreciate it. I...

    Thank you for your reply I appreciate it. I think you are right I have to accept what she said and let it go. It is hard for me to do but there really is no other option. I agree I don't believe...
  18. I wish I knew the answer. I'm in a similar...

    I wish I knew the answer. I'm in a similar situation. I still miss my ex but she has moved on. If you have friends/family spend a lot of time with them, keep yourself distracted. At the same time...
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    This just feels like everyone is going to get...

    This just feels like everyone is going to get hurt.
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    They are definitely flirting. Can't say if she...

    They are definitely flirting. Can't say if she actually wants to act on it but I can understand why you are upset. I would have problems with this. I was in a similar situation and it bothered...
  21. Sounds like she is flirting. I agree with the...

    Sounds like she is flirting. I agree with the previous poster if it bothers you than that should be enough for her to stop doing it. My ex started flirting with a guy when we were going through a...
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    long distance break up

    LDR for about a year and a half. We met online (not a dating site). We got to know each other over about 9 months before meeting in person for the first time. By the time we met we were already...
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