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i agree with searock, i don't think she's playing games, she sounds very nervous. when i was a teenager i used to get super nervous about dating, too, and do weird things, get really quiet, sometimes...

p.s. another thing you should do is ask him to explain what he means when he says that his relationships ended badly and it was his fault. maybe he has treated his girlfriends badly and realized it....

i'm not really sure what you should do.

maybe you could try seeing if you can get him to go hang out with you outside the dorm, like go out for food, to a party, to hang out at a friend's house,...

get involved in activities where "nice" (caring, kind hearted, altruistic) people are more likely to be found. activism for social justice issues and volunteering for good causes. and you'll be doing...

break up with him and don't look back. this guy does not deserve a girlfriend until he learns to stop being cruel. i agree with the person who said this is emotional abuse. whatever good qualities he...

first, she was wrong to cheat on you, it was not justified. i do however believe it was in reaction to feeling controlled and stifled by you in her not going to europe to teach as she'd long dreamed....

my advice:
1. any time someone asks you on a date, before saying yes, first tell them that you have had trouble in the past with guys only liking you for physical reasons. say that because of this,...

i agree with this advice. also, even if you do cum very early on, here's what you do:
1. tell her what a big compliment this is to her, that it's a sign that you're super-hot for her. she'll be...

sounds to me like things are on a good track. sure, she didn't say i love you back, but she did say "awwww", hug you, then was the one who initiated the kiss. this shows she does have romantic...

her behavior is WRONG. nothing to do with her being a lesbian or not. the problems are
1. you are 15 she is an adult
2. she is your teacher you are her student
3. it should be obvious to her that...

TablesandChairs - THANK YOU! It's reassuring to hear that. I really appreciate your comment. :) And this "having expectations is not the same as being needy or insecure" is good advice.

HDBadger -...

update: lately he seems to have changed his attitude. he says he's happy about it and looking forward to it now. and seems sincere. i'm happy! :D

seems to me you are way too jealous and insecure. you should probably not be in a relationship with anyone until you work on and these issues and make real progress. otherwise you'll just be...

no that's sweet! if you think that's corny you should see how my boyfriend and i go on with each other. aw man, it's embarrassing! but we both love it! :D

i suggest using dating websites. ok cupid is the best. half the people i know have profiles on it. the women who have profiles on it say they get messages all the time from guys wanting to go on a...

Thanks everyone. I'm glad to be getting differing points of view. :)

totally agree with this.

and as for what this person said...



how about giving that advice without using sexist language and making yourself sound like an asshole?

to me a good friendship is the foundation of a good romantic relationship.

also, to me calls are a step above texting! it's more personal and intimate. think of it as moving up, not down.

i agree that there's no gender difference.

also, i do think there's always a reason. but sometimes that reason is really trivial. these people aren't such good partners, though, so if you're...

surfhb2 - i see what you mean... but if we waited then I'D be the one doing something to make HIM happy and meanwhile it would make me UNhappy. so there was really no perfect win-win here. also,...

by the way, we signed the lease today. we're going to do it after all, although his unenthusiastic attitude, and him basically doing it to make me happy rather than because it makes him happy, haunts...

yeah, i also think it's a bit ridiculous to be with someone six years and they're ambivalent about what to choose, a great neighborhood living with some guy (his roommate) or a not so great yet...

namemyname - yes, that's pretty much how i see it, too. at least right now. maybe with time, or after hearing more perspectives from others, i'll change my view. but hearing this from you is...

thanks for your advice/perspective. i appreciate it :) and will think it over. the only thing i won't consider is going our separate ways, because i love him more than anyone else in the world and we...

i don't agree with the insulting tone of the other response. but if i can subtract that, i agree with the opinion that moving in with her would be a bad move, and would make it way harder for you to...