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You know what to do. Go No Contact and allow yourself to get over her. Doesn't sound like she has much regards for your feelings. Why would she tell you about her having sex with other guys? ...

You don't know that woman, it's best to leave it alone. She may be crazy. What do you have to gain, really? In my opinion, you have more to lose. She could come after you physically or something....

Ashley, what does your normal day consist of? I ask because, it sounds like you're sitting around idle a bit, which gives you way too much time to think about this. Do you work out? Do you work...

This situation is very complex. Hmmm... I say don't accept the Facebook invite. I don't know her, but it sounds like she's a bit confused with what she wants. You want a relationship with her...

Who knows what the future holds. I wouldn't hold my breath for you guys to get back together, though. Just move on, and maybe she'll fall back in your lap.

Matches,

You sound as if you know the answers, but love is clouding your judgment. Sounds as if she's moved on. And if she's moved on, you have to. The longer you put off moving on and cutting...

I agree Jack, I been a rebound guy before... I was chewed up and spit out once I helped her get her confidence back. Out of nowhere, she told me that she needed space... And you know the rest of...

As the others have mentioned, you're not going to be fine at first. Take it from me though, over time you will be ok. You just have to trust that. It sucks, and it feels unfair. There's a myriad...

My pleasure. Sounds like things are going in the right direction. You have the right mindset to make this work. Just gotta wait for him to "bust a move." Hope things continue to go well.

How did the meeting go? I feel as if the friends should promise not to mention your name. If they say they're going to tell everything, tell your boyfriend, as you don't want something like this to...

Unless you were in a relationship for a long time leading up to one of you moving away, having a long distance relationship is really hard work, because you don't have the foundation of time to hold...

Try working out. Do you currently work out? It can help with the stress. Working out also produces endorphins, which are like natural drugs that our body releases into our bloodstream that make us...

Have you been talking to her during these 2 months?

It's not possible to go NC cold turkey with kids. If you do, you have to tell your kids very little about what's going on with you, because they will tell your ex. Part of the reason for NC is to...

Good stuff, BeingAlpha. Spot on advice.

Only other thing I would add is to get a makeover, start going to the gym, get a spa treatment, get your teeth whitened, etc. Not because you're ugly, but...

It really sounds like you may have some depression issues. After all that time, I would've expected you to be a little further along in getting over the emotions from the break up.

I'm sure it wasn't intentional. I been a rebound guy before and it sucks, no doubt. Thing is, you never really know how damaging her previous relationship was to her self confidence and psyche. ...

You need to ask him why he broke up with you, although it sounds as if you have an idea. Perhaps 4 months was a little too early to reveal to him what you did. Not sure.

You should continue No...

You have to act like all is well for you when you see her. Don't over do it, but when you see her, say "hello, how's everything?" , and kinda keep communication short. If you ignore her, you look...

I think you can't change who you are at the core, and if you're the type that can't deal with someone that smokes, that's who you are.

Also, it sounds like you've done all you can do to help him...

Did you ask her? Not trying to be funny, but that seems like the easiest way to get this question answered, vs. asking people on a forum that don't know her. She could have a mental issue, for all...

You need to go at least a month without contacting him. Perhaps it will make him miss you and come back for you, maybe it won't. But the 30 days is more importantly for YOU. You are in a state of...

My pleasure.

I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt before I brought up depression. Similar to depression, having contact with your ex can prolong the healing as well, so I was looking for him to...

Have you spoke to her or had contact with her during the 10 months you've been broken up?