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Yeah, I think I'm moving along pretty well. It's been two months and my desires to get back with her are fading away. At this point, I don't really care which direction this goes.

Get this, I...

WOW!!

Now I guess there is actually zero hope of getting her back. Check this out, a mutual friend of my ex GF and I forwarded an email to me that my ex GF sent her and this is what it said:
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Damn man! I'm glad your doing alright though.

Your ex was probably to stunned to call and check up on you. I'm sure she will eventually.

It looks like you did everything right. You did'nt beg, plea or anything like that so you pretty much kept your dignity. You did the right thing by contacting her regarding the death in her family...

So after her last texts last week, she sent me two more last night. I ignored them. She basically said she heard some exciting news is going on with me (don't know where she heard that because I...

I was in the same boat. While I was with my ex, I alienated all my friends. That turned out to be a big mistake because once she left, I had no one but I'm starting to reconnect with some of them...

Whoa, that's harsh. In the first couple of weeks I drank my ass to sleep. LOL Maybe had about two rum and cokes before bed. Now, I workout in the evenings. 4 mile run and light weights (not...

Seriously? Did she know this?

Well,if that's the case, take it slow. BE PATIENT. It's going to be a long progress. Have you thought about doing little contact like maybe one text every 2 or 3...

Yeah, we talked about marriage and all that stuff we both weren't ready for it.

In all honesty I thing she wants to see if the "grass is greener on the other side". Screw it, I can do the same...

DarkHelmet82,

As you probably already know, I'm going through a BU after a 4.5 year relationship. It's rough at times and you know what? Ask your self this question- Would you marry this girl?? ...

See, in our meeting she said she was not ready to get back together. Now, these texts that she sent me seem like I'm about to enter the friend zone. That's not where I want to be. The only way...

WTF?

Now she's texting me inviting her to her new apartment!! I'm ignoring her and she keeps on texting me!! NC to the fullest!!

So, I had lunch with my ex today. I think we had a good time. I was upbeat, smiled a lot, etc. First of all, I listened to what she had to say, her reasons for the break up, etc. I let her talk and...

Well, my goal is to ultimately work things out. I guess I'll just listen to what she has to say then tell her exactly how I feel and want.

the thing the bugs me is that I think the break up was...

Hello Everyone,

So after a 4.5 years relationship my girlfriend dumped me over a small fight that triggered her emotions about our future. She said she doesn't see me taking this relationship in...

I don't know, maybe the best thing is to go NC until she contacts me (which probably won't happen). It's just too hard to let go after 4.5 years. I think her response to my VDAY flowers was just...

Ha, I already did. I asked if she would like grab coffee or something this evening but she has class until 10:30pm (which I totally forgot). She thanked me for the invite but mentioned she had...

Well, not she if I played it right but we exchanged a few texts. I replied "you are welcome. I'm glad you like them. How are you?". Then, she replied "Eh, I'm okay I guess. I have my ups and...

Ok, so she received the flowers after two weeks of NC. She sent me a text saying "Thank you for the roses. They are so beautiful"

Now what?? What should be the next move? I haven't replied yet.

Nah, probably not but if don't get a response from her, I'm at the point where I don't give a shit. LOL

"if it were only that easy... I know time heals all wounds.. but it seems like time is moving slower than normal.."


It sure does! Honestly, it's been 9 days of no contact with my EX and i feel...

Now, with break ups like ours that didn't involve cheating, beating, or mental abuse, I believe no contact should be minimal. Give each other some space to think shit through but i wouldn't wait too...

Haha....I see what your saying but I KNOW my EX is going to use my actions on Valentines Day as a gauge also. All girls are different and only you know your Ex's personality, so act accordingly.

Man, we are in very similar situations with her having "issues" and all. This is my plan.

Today is the 9th day since my break up and there has been zero contact from both sides. This is...

Yup, it sounds like the eating disorder is messing with her. I went through the exact same thing with my GF two years ago. She hid a eating disorder and when I found out she started to become more...