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Thank you for all your advice, guys.

I am absolutely certain that he is not looking at it all that often and is not an addict. He has a busy job and he'd lose it if he was messing about too much...

When I say 'at work', I don't mean literally whilst he's at his desk working. I meant, most likely if he nips to the toilet, or during his lunch break.

I don't think that he's hidden it...

My partner and I have been together for two years. We are both 36, have a house together and two children each. We are fairly active sexually and have no issues.

On Saturday evening, when he used...

I've been using a dating web site for a while now. A couple of weeks ago, a guy contacted me and we got talking. We went on a date on Sunday evening; just drinks in town, nothing major. The date went...

To answer point 1.) He's been separated just over two years, and he left her. From what I've been told by various people, it was difficult, and she is still being ridiculously difficult. And the...

He did reply to my long message, last night. Went along the same lines as when he ended it. Not a lot more he could say, he agreed 100% with some of what I had said, less so with other parts. He said...

Okay. I recently dated a local guy I met on Plenty of Fish (POF) for two months. It was genuinely great. However, he's having huge problems sorting his financial agreement and divorce out. His...

So, in brief terms, I recently met a guy and we went out for two months. I'm 33, he's 37. Both married before; I am divorced, his is taking forever, as his ex is a complete nightmare and is being...

So... this gets a little bizarre and I'd really appreciate responses to the entire situation!

I'm 33, been married twice and have 2 young daughters.

About 9 weeks ago, I met a guy on a dating...

I can see that. Not sure I understand it, but yes, I can see that he might be like that. He's 37 next week, has had serious relationships before and I think he has lived with someone (from the very...

Hmmm, I don't know. Let me tell you a bit more about Andrew and you'll see why I'm not convinced. Andrew, by his own confession, is a complete geek. His interests in life are Indiana Jones, Star...

Hi,

I'm a 32 year old female, married twice and have two daughters. So, I'm not inexperienced with relationships. Also, with regards to this situation, I am not distressed by it. I am not...

I guess so. We are both very head strong people. Although we were generally a very normal and happy couple, we did sometimes argue and fight (nothing physical); sometimes it's been my fault,...

It was an argument about getting a sofa through a doorway. He got nasty cause he insisted it wouldn't fit, I tried to be calm and reasonable and say it must go through somehow as it came in that way...

We met in September 2009, started living together part time in April 2010, moved in fully when I bought our home in July 2011, had our daughter Madison in August 2011, got married in October 2011. I...

He wasn't seeing anyone prior to or around the time of leaving, I'm almost 100% sure of that. We lived together and work together (so travelled together), so there was no time that was ever...

I'm not having sex with him now, nor letting him come to the house, or stay over, etc. You're right, he has got to do the chasing, and a lot would have to change from his side too. I don't even...

Not a particularly length thread, but would really appreciate your thoughts.

In a nutshell, I'm married, but my husband separated from me and moved out of our home in October. At the moment, we...

Well, counselling is expensive, but I am doing lots of research and online work to better myself and stuff. Not just for him, but for me, my Mum and my two girls.

I guess I haven't yet figured out...

Yes, one thing you should definitely do is be nice to him. I'm not saying take the blame or be a doormat, but make the effort to be pleasant (and I'm not saying you aren't already!). Firstly, as...

I know, WakeUp. That's what is driving me mad. There are signs that it may not be over, such as not collecting his stuff, no signs of divorce papers, etc. but on the other hand, he did move out, he's...

I can't believe how much like my situation yours is...!

And I am going through the same patterns of thoughts as you - if he doesn't care any more, why ask about you? I'm very confident that there...

I am kind of going through the same thing, brokenhearted91. Maybe slightly more of a difficult situation because we're married and have a child together (as well as three others between us from...

I'm hoping you lovely people out there can give me your thoughts on my situation, which I feel like I've just completely lost my way with.

In a nutshell, got together with my husband at work in...

I feel for you, hun, but wow, do I admire you! You are so self-aware and that is great to see.

If it was me, I would probably end things with your current bf, mainly because he doesn't make you...