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IMO cheating is an unequivocal deal breaker for me. If a woman cheated on me, she would only have the opportunity to do it once!

starbuck.

I agree. From now on I will really have to give some serious consideration to a woman that I date if she starts breaking out the "earn my trust" hoops. This was hard to do with the last...

I have deal breakers too. Women who communicate through anger is my prime deal breaker. And sadly the last gal did just that.

Ya, she had an alcoholic ex of 16 years. But when her and I were together we never drank, except once and only one drink each.

I only go for the nice girls too. Funny thing is because of my looks, most of the women that I attract are bad girls. I avoid bad girls like the plague! Party girls can take the party elsewhere!

We are exploring the friends option. IMO she avoids confrontation and thus does not want to talk about anything other than happy thoughts. Makes it impossible to work through problems. So perhaps...

lol. No I had not heard that saying, but it applies to my experience to a tee. I hope it is not uncommon for nice gals to be bad girls in bed. Gives me hope. Sex is not everything, but really good...

Has anyone ever experienced this?

I dated the proverbial "nice woman" for three months. She has never done drugs, does not drink, does not smoke, lives a clean and healthy life for the most part....

I have this problem in real life when dating. If I feel even the slightest bit of chemistry I am ready to go right into full on dating. I think this has in part led to the problems in my last...

OP;

You have stated your needs to him and he seems not to care. For a relationship to work there has to be give and take. Each side has needs and both sided should do their best to reach a middle...

I think it is rude and disrespectful. As a man, when I am with a woman, I NEVER look at other women! What I mean by this is, that I do not stare at women, or give them a 2nd glance. Why do I need to...

You are right. I will not date until I am over the last girl and my wall has dropped.

As for the women without baggage, or those whom have overcome their past... I wish I could find them. The...

Ya, good point. I avoid rebounding myself like the plague! And I will not date a woman who is just out of a relationship.

Kind of hard to do when they lie to you and put on a very convincing front of being baggage free.

Hi sookie6

Thanks for your post. In all fairness I should state that the lack of trust issue is not just a woman thing, because I am sure that there are a lot of men that have trust issues too......

Left a 16 year marriage over 2 years ago. Did not date for a year. but in the last year and a half I have gotten in to two relationships and gotten my heart broke twice... for the same reason. Every...

Jas_mine

Good advice, thanks for the input. I am already starting to see my folly. The good times with her were wonderful, I guess I was desperately trying to hold onto that.

Dated a wonderful woman for 3 months. First month was the most amazing time of my dating life. We were inseparable and agreed on everything. We talked for hours and had an uncanny amount of things in...

Well your story sounds a lot like mine. When she and I were good, we were AMAZING together... but when it was bad, it was the most emotionally painful and draining experience of my life! I do not...

Hi all. Just got out of a 2 month relationship, thought we were a match made in heaven, but in the end it was hell. Saw some character flaws in myself and am here to work through them. Guess I am...

I can relate OP. I have discovered that I am very needy in dating. Was never like this before or during my 16 year marriage, but in the last year of dating I feel obsessed in my thinking and "need"...