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Michelle is right, sadism and masochism are listed in the DSM as paraphilia; it is a mental illness.

I think you should wear a Borat style mankini and then jump on her in bed and say - "I will look on your treasures, gypsy. Is this understood?".

I hope you're taking your advice :P (I know you didn't mean that you ACTUALLY fantasised about some random dude at the store).

Not stupid at all :D Ask her!

That's based on your opinion that a kiss isn't that bad and you're then speculating that the same applies in their relationship and then deciding that she's acting way too guilty for it to just be a...

There's some seeeeeerious insecurity in this thread lol. If I cheated on someone I absolutely adored, I would be all over the place and me sucking-up to my (ex)-partner might seem a little extreme,...

That answers it.

I've already said I was being sarcastic and you said you didn't believe me, which is absolutely fine.

You're not reading what I actually said again, I never said you were making assumptions based...

It's seriously like talking to a brick wall. Ok, You asserted that it's fact that she 'probably' did more based on the bullshit fact that a handful of people you know did minimise what happened....

No, it isn't actually true, but it's also besides the point and when I said 'actual fact', I was being a bit sarcastic. Course I understand the difference, but what you did is you asserted that it's...

I know 5 people that have cheated and haven't minimised their involvement.

You don't have to start insulting me lol, I'm literally laughing at you because using a sample size of a pathetically tiny amount of people is the back-up to your claims :lol: I could just as easily...

Ok, lets use a tinyyyyyyyyy sample size and assert that the same is true for everyone and THEN pass it off as fact. I have known the grand total of 2 people that have cheated and haven't minimised...

Don't try and pass it of as a fact that in the majority of cases, it turns out to be more. It might be fact to you, but your experiences are mainly drawn from an online relationship advice forum...

If she's that much of a bitch, why are you with her lol?

What lol? Where did I say anything to the contrary of the part in bold? You've literally just picked one part of my reply and turned it into something totally different :lol: A cheater minimising...

I don't even know your girlfriend, but that was obviously a joke.

It happens, I never said it didn't but how is you saying that helping anyone?

Guess what... that is an insecurity, you are an insecure person, dress it however you want. If a girlfriend kissed...

I know you're probably trolling but just for arguments sake lets assume you are serious.

That points to your own insecurity and paranoia more than anything.

I would have said something very similar to michelle23, you can't ask on a forum if you should forgive her, the question you need to ask yourself is 'can you forgive her?', it's a personal thing,...

Honestly mate, the similarities between our stories is freaking me out lol.

The girl I had feelings for literally told me once that she wants to be seen as some kind of seductress and likes being...

Only 8 months luckily.

I love it how you ended it by the way - "Sure", "I'm sleepy. Good night" after she'd literally told you her plan to lead you on further.

Seriously? The update is that she text you saying goodnight?

That is honestly scary how similar she sounds to a girl that did the same to me, she even acted like I was one of many that was in love with her and she had her pick of guys just like your girl did;...