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Apologies for the title, I really wasn't sure how to call this thread.
I'll try to keep it short and if you'd like any more details to offer some advice I'll gladly give and take.

So here goes: I...

He might be trying to act like that never happened and to cover up his feelings by acting all ok with you? It's really hard to say without knowing the person. If you are fine with just being friends...

I assume you are from a very traditional and/or religious family? Did your parents know your are dating this guy before you went on the trip together? Even though at the age you're at they shouldn't...

Why would that be shallow? It would only be shallow and stupid if you fell in love with a person who had a divorce and/or kids and decided not to be with them only because of that. As long as you...

That's completely normal :-) I like it when guys are looking at me, and that doesn't mean I'd like to make out with them or that I don't love my bf - we girls just like to feel attractive.

I do know the feeling when he's online. I know it so well and I never wish to feel it again.
I had it with a person whose behaviour I found so complicated it made my head ache and brought me to...

Do talk to him about the possibility of his working hours changing. Is he the ambitious type who wants to grit his teeth and bear it for the moment so that he can save up enough money to [insert a...

I'm stuck thinking what a tricky issue it is. On the one hand, if you do apologize, you both might feel better - it might be that an apology would work as some sort of closure for you two, in case...

TheEvilJester, it's very nice to hear that :-) perhaps not such an evil jester after all!
I do believe people should and will make their own experiences as they go, but if someone has gone through...

basilandthyme and TheEvilJester make some very good points - it's easy to idealize someone you know mostly via the online world and only met in person several times. You only get to see their good...

Don't know him at all, but he comes across as a bit of a dick. He knew you'd jump at the chance of you two getting together again, while he himself gave that no chance, and yet he still got in touch...

It's always a good idea to meet in the park and just hang out watching people and talking about everything you see - the weather, the roadworks, your favourite coffee shop, that woman out there with...

The girl #1 may have felt there is too much distance between you to make it work, and decided to nip it in the bud to spare your feelings. I wouldn't blame her for that, though the manner in which...

happyismoho,

since I am a girl of 25 (and was 24 when we met) in a relationship with a 38-year-old guy, I thought you might like to have some insight from the younger side - not that I think your...