That's an interesting take on it...it never even occurred to me that "burning the bridge" could be a bad thing. But also of interest - I told him over a week ago that he could email back with his...
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That's an interesting take on it...it never even occurred to me that "burning the bridge" could be a bad thing. But also of interest - I told him over a week ago that he could email back with his...
Oh bless your heart!! I am going through something very similar. I posted my issue on here and on reddit. I did *not* get very favorable responses though. I understand your feelings of "what if"...
No...I'm not going to see him. I've already told him that. And I still stand by that. I know that is a bad idea. I really need advice as to how or if to communicate with him at all?!?!? Like by...
I'm currently dating a wonderful man who I love dearly. We've been through a lot together but our relationship is still going strong. We've been together for about 18 months and living together for a...
What would be other possible motives?
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Thank you for your advice...all very good, sound ideas. I just have to get my heart and brain inline with each other. As of right...
Here is the link to my original post: http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/102913-moving-dating.html
Well, this weekend happened and he moved out all of his belongings. He (surprisingly)...
I posted on here earlier last week. The original post is linked here: http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/102913-moving-dating.html
I need some follow-up advice. I am absolutely heartbroken...
I posted this in the general forum, but I really think I need a "male perspective" on this one specifically.
I apologize in advance for the length of this message. I have been dating the man of my...
I agree - I feel like I am stuck no matter what I choose. Right now, I am leaning towards option 1, but I am not sure that I am strong enough to keep up with either option for very long. I think he...
We talked again last night. I had made out a list of questions to ask him (to keep my thoughts somewhat straight). He continued to insist that this is temporary, that he loves me, and for this to...
I apologize in advance for the length of this message. I have been dating the man of my dreams for a little over 15 months. We moved in together (at my home) after dating about 4 months. He was...
Thank you so much for your post and your thoughtful advice. It was very helpful for you to point out the differences in the thoughts between men and women (things I hadn't really thought about,...
I agree with you and definitely see your point. In our state, you have to be legally separated for at least 366 days (1 year + 1 day) to even file for divorce. He hasn't hit that mark yet, so he...
He has had an on-again, off-again problem with drinking, prior to the break-up of his marriage. He has had long periods of sobriety in the past but is currently struggling with staying sober. So I...
I am writing today as a follow-up to a message I posted back in September. I need some additional advice and don't know where else to turn. Here is that message I posted back in the fall:
"I have...
Out of this relationship??
I want to be with him...for him to be okay...and to have a happy, long future with him.
That's what I want. In a nutshell: HIM.
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I am writing today as a follow-up to a message I posted back in September. I need some additional advice and don't know where else to turn. Here is that message I posted back in...
I agree. I have tried to get them deleted and reported, but I keep getting a message that says I must have been a member of the forum for 30 days before I can report items that have "links" to the...
Hooo! - I think that it's not so much about the legal status of his relationship - for me, it's more that he admitted that he still loves her. I think you make a good point too - his actions DO...
Thank you SO much for this advice. I know (now!) that the timing of the relationship wasn't the best - but he assured me that he was ready, had processed his relationship with his ex, that the...
Thank you for this advice. I am new to dating so this is all VERY uncharted territory for me. He has given me no reason to doubt his feelings for me - at all. He says he loves me, he talks about...
I am new to the community and need some advice.
I have been dating a wonderful man for the past 10 months. We are currently living together and he treats me like gold. We have fun together and...