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  1. That's an interesting take on it...it never even...

    That's an interesting take on it...it never even occurred to me that "burning the bridge" could be a bad thing. But also of interest - I told him over a week ago that he could email back with his...
  2. Oh bless your heart!! I am going through...

    Oh bless your heart!! I am going through something very similar. I posted my issue on here and on reddit. I did *not* get very favorable responses though. I understand your feelings of "what if"...
  3. No...I'm not going to see him. I've already told...

    No...I'm not going to see him. I've already told him that. And I still stand by that. I know that is a bad idea. I really need advice as to how or if to communicate with him at all?!?!? Like by...
  4. Email from "THE ONE" after four year absence?!?!?

    I'm currently dating a wonderful man who I love dearly. We've been through a lot together but our relationship is still going strong. We've been together for about 18 months and living together for a...
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    What would be other possible motives? - - -...

    What would be other possible motives?

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    Thank you for your advice...all very good, sound ideas. I just have to get my heart and brain inline with each other. As of right...
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    Help for my broken heart PLEASE!!!

    Here is the link to my original post: http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/102913-moving-dating.html

    Well, this weekend happened and he moved out all of his belongings. He (surprisingly)...
  7. Heartbroken as this weekend with my boyfriend approaches

    I posted on here earlier last week. The original post is linked here: http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/102913-moving-dating.html

    I need some follow-up advice. I am absolutely heartbroken...
  8. Boyfriend moving out but still wants to date?!?!?

    I posted this in the general forum, but I really think I need a "male perspective" on this one specifically.

    I apologize in advance for the length of this message. I have been dating the man of my...
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    I agree - I feel like I am stuck no matter what I...

    I agree - I feel like I am stuck no matter what I choose. Right now, I am leaning towards option 1, but I am not sure that I am strong enough to keep up with either option for very long. I think he...
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    We talked again last night. I had made out a...

    We talked again last night. I had made out a list of questions to ask him (to keep my thoughts somewhat straight). He continued to insist that this is temporary, that he loves me, and for this to...
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    moving out but still dating?

    I apologize in advance for the length of this message. I have been dating the man of my dreams for a little over 15 months. We moved in together (at my home) after dating about 4 months. He was...
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    Thank you so much for your post and your...

    Thank you so much for your post and your thoughtful advice. It was very helpful for you to point out the differences in the thoughts between men and women (things I hadn't really thought about,...
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    I agree with you and definitely see your point. ...

    I agree with you and definitely see your point. In our state, you have to be legally separated for at least 366 days (1 year + 1 day) to even file for divorce. He hasn't hit that mark yet, so he...
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    He has had an on-again, off-again problem with...

    He has had an on-again, off-again problem with drinking, prior to the break-up of his marriage. He has had long periods of sobriety in the past but is currently struggling with staying sober. So I...
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    Ups and Downs

    I am writing today as a follow-up to a message I posted back in September. I need some additional advice and don't know where else to turn. Here is that message I posted back in the fall:

    "I have...
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    Out of this relationship?? I want to be with...

    Out of this relationship??

    I want to be with him...for him to be okay...and to have a happy, long future with him.

    That's what I want. In a nutshell: HIM.
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    Ups and Downs

    Good morning -

    I am writing today as a follow-up to a message I posted back in September. I need some additional advice and don't know where else to turn. Here is that message I posted back in...
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    I agree. I have tried to get them deleted and...

    I agree. I have tried to get them deleted and reported, but I keep getting a message that says I must have been a member of the forum for 30 days before I can report items that have "links" to the...
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    Hooo! - I think that it's not so much about the...

    Hooo! - I think that it's not so much about the legal status of his relationship - for me, it's more that he admitted that he still loves her. I think you make a good point too - his actions DO...
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    Thank you SO much for this advice. I know (now!)...

    Thank you SO much for this advice. I know (now!) that the timing of the relationship wasn't the best - but he assured me that he was ready, had processed his relationship with his ex, that the...
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    Thank you for this advice. I am new to dating so...

    Thank you for this advice. I am new to dating so this is all VERY uncharted territory for me. He has given me no reason to doubt his feelings for me - at all. He says he loves me, he talks about...
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    Trouble with trust

    I am new to the community and need some advice.

    I have been dating a wonderful man for the past 10 months. We are currently living together and he treats me like gold. We have fun together and...
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