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    I think the best relationships need to have...

    I think the best relationships need to have effective communication which should include being able to talk about one’s past. I know that in the past I haven’t been as forthcoming as I’d like to have...
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    Infidelities are a lot more common than you...

    Infidelities are a lot more common than you think, but they don’t all have to portend the end of a marriage. It sounds like you really love her and might even want to reconcile the marriage if the...
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    I think the first thing you need to do is leave...

    I think the first thing you need to do is leave the relationship with your abusive boyfriend. It’s not safe for you or the children. Period. Things may get tough or feel hard, but the fact is you...
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    Dating someone at work is very difficult. In a...

    Dating someone at work is very difficult. In a strange way relationships need their space in order to thrive. And while you may enjoy being with someone you see every day, eventually that every day...
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    Attraction is far too complex to be explained...

    Attraction is far too complex to be explained with some well-turned phrases or simplistic assertions. Sure they sound well enough to be article leads or topics, but the reality is that many factors...
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    Depression is serious. And the fact that she has...

    Depression is serious. And the fact that she has not just contemplated suicide but has talked about is very unsettling. I know you can’t support her as much from a distance, but she should be getting...
  7. Great way to quote Calvin, Cerby! I completely...

    Great way to quote Calvin, Cerby! I completely agree, I don’t think you should respond. I don’t read any sort of sign that indicates he wants to reconnect. It sound like he sent a polite message. For...
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    It sounds really symptomatic of a co-dependent...

    It sounds really symptomatic of a co-dependent relationship. I agree with one of the posts above that recommends you remove emotions from the equation and look at it logically. Before you consider...
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    I would actually be as honest as possible. The...

    I would actually be as honest as possible. The new guy knew you were in a relationship that was on the rocks, right? And he didn’t feel comfortable doing anything until that ended. Well, tell him...
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    I don’t see why you’re hesitant. I’m sorry to say...

    I don’t see why you’re hesitant. I’m sorry to say but if his girlfriend doesn’t know you were with him when he came into town, how can you be certain he wasn’t cheating on you before you two...
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    I went to this site and found lots of really cool...

    I went to this site and found lots of really cool stuff for not just Valentine’s but for the entire year. I especially like the section about dating advice for specific dates (e.g., what to do on...
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    I don’t know about this one. I’ve been in a...

    I don’t know about this one. I’ve been in a similar situation where I left a job and made a move to be closer to someone. After about a year and a half things began to cool off. I think a cool of...
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    I don’t think there’s much confusion about the...

    I don’t think there’s much confusion about the situation. It sounds like he’s making his advances towards you. Now if you’re also attracted to him, then I think you need to let him know. With any...
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    There is a big age gap between the two of you. I...

    There is a big age gap between the two of you. I am not saying that is why you guys have grown apart but that could be one side to it. You were away for some time and things are different when you...
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    Well, it varies with person to person. But I...

    Well, it varies with person to person. But I would say wait for least two years before you pop the big question!  You need to get beyond the stage of being “in love with love”! That stage is all...
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    You are definitely not doing your kids a favor by...

    You are definitely not doing your kids a favor by staying in that marriage! I’m sure you don’t “live” as husband and wife and your kids would know that. They’ve seen so much hard life already…no...
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