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She is willing to help with bills etc. But I dont find it responsible by me to put that all on her until May when I graduate and can help. (hence my initial thinking the spring would be a good...

Yes, for all intents and purposes we live together.

And you basically hit the nail on the head with your second paragraph. I want to get married, but im still working on stabilizing myself...

GeSo lately my gf of almost 2 years is making all kinds of references about "when am I getting a ring" "how long til we get married" etc. I told her she's impatient and that I would make it the right...

Not what this thread was originally about but I'll bite....

My problem with taking someone back after a "mistake" is that I've seen it a hundred times. Number one, I know I would be very hard...

After taking a step back and looking at it, I think whats going to happen is that as long as there's no contact with the dude via text/phone call, I can let it go. Now if they talk again I'm going...

I am naturally a protective guy. So you may well be right.

But let me just ask you this. If a guy were to go out without his girlfriend and bought another girl drinks and danced would that raise...

So my gf and I have dated almost two years. It's great. So last night she went out for a girl's night with sister and friends. They've done this before, but never really had this discussion. She said...

I'm 24 she's 23. She's finishing school. Im in my masters program and looking for a steady career job. Been together about a year and 3 months now. We pretty much live together. (she has her place...

Well except that she and I both thought she may be pregnant for a few days...

So I'm in a great relationship. Were in our 20s. We waited awhile for sex but now we like it a lot. About 3 weeks ago a few days before she was supposed to get her period she started having unusual...

Cuz honestly I have no idea what she wants from me.

We haven't talked in a couple weeks after I finally said 'were not on the same page and you just don't understand.'

Well the past three days she has tried to text me... The first time was just...

Look me and this girl have talked for about a year flirty and finally hung out multiple times back in the summer. Enough so and far enough to where it was obvious there is somethin. We've been thru...

Ok one more thing...

Someone tell me that this is the right thing I'm doing. Because I'm finding it hard to justify just dropping everything when she is brought to tears by the thought of me not...

I have this to say... I have been in a situation where a girl had a longtime bf that I knew she deserved better than. I knrew there was chemistry between us. I went for it. We got close. She got to...

So here's an update on this....

I went to her house Friday. About an hour after the bf left... But I needed to talk about this. I asked her how her and he were doing. She said 'ok I guess' so...

Why do you say that

I honestly think she may leave him if she has another good option, but I may have clouded vision. And I know they aren't. You think I'm stupid for doing what I'm doing? Try this one out. The guy...

This may be true, but their relationship is lacking a lot. There is no sex, of that I'm sure. And minimal excitement. I rather think that's why I am around. Because she is bored. Literally what is...

I appreciate everything everyone is saying. I think I knew in the back of my head that it is time to fish or cut bait. And I think that's why I posted because I wanted to hear if anyone heard...

I've seen your post before on here. I don't disrespect your opinion. Many people need you to be blunt. I don't want this to be written off as 'not what the OP' wants to hear'. What you fail to see...

I am thoroughly convinced that she is not in love with her boyfriend still. She avoids staying with him and when she does sleeps in another room. Not normal for a relationship that far along. Also,...

There are some cold cruel people on these boards....

The way to get out of the friend zone is to tell her you have no interest in the friend zone, and if she wants to have contact with you then...

Alright I've posted about this before, but its grown into something entirely different. I thought the right things would make it easier but it has just made it the most complex its ever been. I'm...

Thanks.... I know that's what I need to do. It will be really hard... Because I know there is somethin there.... Just... Timing is bad... And she's afraid to leave her first...