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your probably right, dunno if you read all the thread? i know chances are she isnt going to leave her bf anytime soon, i dont even know if i could see her properly to be honest but i just dont...

little update on this, we had a chat and decided its best if we stay as friends, we then pretty much stopped talking to each other. There was some drinks after work and we both went, by the end of...

fair enough, your probably right there tbh

honestly? i want to know what she honestly wants from me but i dont know if she can tell me that, i dont want to continue the games, i just cant see us being friends, polite maybe but friends i doubt...

lol now i dont know what to do, ignore her? talk to her about it properly? or try to **** her?

maybe this is the right attitude to have and maybe it isnt, i dunno. im quite tempted to give it ago but maybe im just to nice for that. thanks for the advice anyway, i will update once theres a...

i might yeah but ive asked her round before, ok in a joking way and she probably knows that but it hasnt happened

haha she wont come round, i know that, she really hasnt got the bottle to do that because she knows how it will end.

No, i saw it as friends and nothing more, i tried my best to keep it that way, i ignored alot of her calls, replied late with the txts its only after months of it and once we actually started...

well how would you go about it backup? lol, might be worth knowing?

This is exactly how im feeling, i started genuine with her, kept it as just friends, shes made it more than that, she started all the phone calls, she started the flirting, she kissed me, shes got...

I kind of get what backup is saying tbh, shes led me on for months, not just a little bit massively, she wouldnt have kissed me if she wasnt interested? and now shes backing off, its not fair on me...

Ive thought about it and im not going to mention going for a chat, if she wants to she can. if she dont im gonna just ignore her and if that makes her want me more or not then what will be will be,...

i dont know if i want her in the way your saying to be honest, if she phoned me now, said shes left he bf and wants to be with me i dunno if id go for it because of the trust. maybe nice guys do...

he knows what shes like, some of the things shes told me hes said, its obvious he dont trust her, im not saying im defiantly going to do as backup is saying but im thinking about it, what else do i...

also what do you mean by call her out? ask her what she wants?

Im not usually like that but im thinking i should just do what backup is saying, i think thats what she wants deep down as well? tbh

there was a point when i thought i quite liked her but im so...

Do you know what, a few people have said this to me and part of me thinks this is what i should do or atleast try, like i said we're both gonna drive if we go for this chat so should i just try it...

so you agree with Michelle or not lol?

Backup - i think your right about not wanting me to know, tbh i think at first she just wanted the attention and now its become more than that shes s*** it.

Michelle - i think your right as well,...

I just had a quick look through the thread you linked. I done the whole no contact thing and she didnt like it, now shes doing the same to me. i think she's realized she's been completely out of...

I agree with the bit about she would have dumped him, i thought that all along the only thing is she tells everyone, male and female that shes not happy with him. Still saying that yeah i dont...

We're going for a chat this week but theres gonna be no drink involved (her idea not mine, i think because she knows she cant trust herself?), i was gonna ask her straight what shes want, i was...

I'll try to make this as short as i can.

Theres a girl at work who started maybe a year ago, we work in different departments so never really needed to speak or even see each other. I was told...