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Dump him, dump him, dump him, dump him!! Oh please, save yourself and GET OUT NOW!

Someone who would treat you like this now is not going to treat you any better in the future. Having a child is...

It's my humble opinion that if you can't accept this girl at her worst, you don't deserve her at her best. Yes, you do need to be attracted to this girl for your relationship to succeed. But um...if...

Basically, my boyfriend and I get along great about 88% of the time, which is fantastic in my eyes. I don't mind that we have our moments, it keeps me on my toes; I enjoy some of our less turbulent...

Excuse me, did I EVER SAY IT WAS ALL HIS FAULT?

Nope. Sure did not. I'm a pro at taking the blame.

I hear all good things come to an end. I hear patience is a virtue. And lately, I've heard a lot of "You're stupid, why keep trying?"

I'm pretty sure all those things are true.

Because I have...

Hahaha. Oh God. All my relationship woes and worries and I stumble across THIS little gem. Thank you, thank you!

Men who mentioned the menthol trick -- :P don't like it, do it back. I suggest...

Well bulrush, do you mean is whatever he's being moody/having a bad day about a long-term thing, or are you asking is the moodiness/bad day a long term thing.

The thing is, he isn't one to always...

I worry because I do know. But I'm not supposed to.

Wow this went off in another direction fast! Thanks everyone. Wakeup..what about the actions I know "nothing" about?

True? I've been told a million times at least to not read between the lines when talking to a man, because there are no lines to read between. I'm wondering if this is true.

I'm wondering...

You're girlfriends are right. Walk away and don't look back, I guarantee there's been more lying than just two times, you just trusted him enough to not ever take a closer look. Don't waste another...

Hahaha. I think if I told my guy he didn't wear big boy pants he'd tell me where to stick it, honestly.

You didn't tell him what he wanted to hear. Is that your job? No, maybe not. But he likely counts it as you being supportive. You need to apologize for the way you handled it, and he needs to...

Tanguerra - Thank you for your thoughtful and might I say well rounded reply! I forgot to factor in depression, of course. I should mention that he "suffers" (I use quotes because I think he's doing...

Probably gonna need it, thanks.

Like I said, I don't think you are meaning to attack me or make me feel attacked, it's fine. & I do value your replies.
I'm just trying to be understanding. And, maybe I'm grasping, but I'm trying...

My favorite quotes :)

Never regret. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s experience.
- Victoria Holt

I'm unsure of the author of this one: A sniper is the worst romancer, they never...

Wakeup, I feel like every single time I post something on here, you attack me. I'm sure that's not what you're setting out to do. The reason I posted this post isn't because I'm unhappy, this isn't a...

Vashti - I am 23, he is 29.

mwahahaha - Hahaha, I might just try that.

Devilsbane - I'm literally busting my ass trying to make things better for him, lol. I do notice that since if he's within...

LOL. Oh, that would land me in hot water for sure.

He's not the most communicative person in the world, prefers to sulk and let no one in. I guess that's why I come up blank when it comes to his...

My issue is that I have myself a moody man.

I'm as moody as it gets, I guess. I'm a woman after all. But, I do take great care in trying to not take my moods out on my boyfriend, because it's not...

See, that's what I was thinking! He kept saying he wanted to jump state lines after the youngest gets old enough to understand, now he's thinking that he can just Skype with them a lot and come home...

My guy finally, FINALLY resigned himself to the fact that he and the mother of his children are going to continue to be unable to work things out. They've come to terms. The divorce is pending...

Because being without him feels truly awful, Wakeup. Last night I asked him, "What did I do?" He said I didn't do anything, asked what I meant. So I mentioned all the things that have been happening....

I'm aware that you are all correct, & that I'm justifying all his wrongdoings. I'm not in la la land here.

I don't know why I'm fighting..but he's the only guy I've seen a future with past...