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I dont think you were, you told her the issues you had and she didnt address them. Usually when someone is leaving a relationship they pull back which is what she did, this made you try and pull her...

Day...well I dont know, its pretty much nearly 8 weeks this Sunday, LC for about a week 4 weeks ago which didnt really set me back. Feeling good these days. Have a 3rd date this weekend with a girl I...

anger is a normal process. yeah unforutnately though you may feel lonely after this. best thing to do is to plan as much with your friends as possible just to make sure you are not alone as much.

4 weeks is a great acheievement, i remember the first 4 weeks were the hardest. My advice would be to go on a few casual dates when you are ready, they really up the confidence. A few weeks ago I...

No Contact for 4 weeks, then a week of Low Contact - i.e her initiating texts and me just responding saying I'm only going to entertain these if you want to reconcile, then back to nearly 3 weeks of...

You shouldnt ignore work emails, I dont with my ex. Just kept it very professional at the start, short sentences etc. Now after nearly 7 weeks of NC/LC I'm pretty good with things so I can email her...

I'm with Cerby but hopefully you can move on now DH. 3 billion women in the world, no need to be hung up on the one!

yeah I read that book, told me not to contact, didnt and a month later she gets in touch but it wasnt to reconcile, just missed me! To be honest after anohter 3-4 weeks of NC since then I dont want...

haha good man, she was getting angry and it was nothing to do with you, you are not a doormat and you showed that to her. could imagine her standing in the rain with rain pouring on her while you...

i got a happy bday text from her on the 1st and didnt reply :)

It gets easier, I work with mine and can go a week without seeing her or bump in to her. Just say hi and be professional and trust me you will feel better in no time. Plus people cant just tune off,...

update, couple of more texts, so i asked her if she wanted to try again as i miss what we had. she said she isnt sure, needs more time as its only been a few weeks. told her its not fair on me etc...

Suppose I should update people. So there were a good few texts from her saying how much she missed me, NC wasnt fair as we shared so much. I texted back with nonchalance to see where she was coming...

yeah definitely hold off. I left my ex alone for 4 weeks, didnt even think she missed me and got on with my life. Then i got a load of texts from her saying how much she missed me and wished things...

Yep I am, know I deserve better etc, was more curious to know what she was thinking. I'm far too nosey for my own good!

thanks for the reply. hmm thats an interesting take on it. I slept on it and im not too bothered about it. Dont expect her to get in touch again unless she feels like I dont think about her anymore...

yeah i think as well she just wanted to know what i was thinking. we work together as well so she prob just wanted to make sure there was no issues there, even though there hasnt been! ah sure i...

So my ex broke up with me because she was always busy and just didnt have enough time for a serious relationship, we went out for 6 months so i thought it was pretty serious! also it was her first...

so i hit the 28 day mark today and have been feeling pretty great. then she texts me! said she missed me at her brothers wedding. was funny didnt even effect me. was able to text back saying glad the...

ugh was weird today, she sent me 2 emails work related which she didnt have to, my friend said she is just opening up a line of communication. kind of gave me hope but after 17 days NC initiated by...

So day 16 of NC is nearly over. I do work with her but generally dont see her in work, I did once and just said good morning and smiled about 2 weeks ago. We went out for 6 months, it was all great...

cool well then best of luck with it, i hope you get the answer you want/need.

if she doesnt respond how will that make you feel? Will you be able to say well I tried so its over and be able to move on for good or will you leave it a few days and contact her again?

cheers, we actually met up on Wednesday night and she still doesnt know what she wants. we communicate differently, i said thats something that can be fixed easily if we both work on it and...

So me and my gfriend of 6 months broke up. Basically I'm a chatty/keep in touch kind of guy and she is more of a laid back person so we were not compatible from the start and it eventually took its...