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Ha! Bravado? Quite possibly. I didnt get to where I am in life thinking poorly of myself ;) . No I am not scoping out other possibilities and she doesnt appear to be doing that either. No, she is...

If she wants to play with someone else?....it would suck, yes. However, that hasn't come up. Dealbreaker? Not really. If she hasn't made any commitment then there is no deal to break. This gets...

Just because this relationship started off with her in a long term failing relationship does not mean I should be pushing for a commitment any sooner than a relationship that started on better...

So when is the statute of limitations on everyone's claims? I keep hearing how this is going to fail and I'm setting myself up for a broken heart. If this works for 3 more months, 6 months, 10...

still going strong by the way...

amd im getting off on the fact that im proving this guy wrong :)

sorry for the delay folks....so the news is good and a bit confusing. Since my last post she has put her boyfriend behind her about a month ago and we have been spending A LOT of time together when...

Any suggestions. I know what I would be doing if she were single....but now i got this weird boundary to deal with...not sure how far to push it...of course I wanna push it as far as she is willing...

I keep repeating that to myself....resisting showing all the cards....so tempting tho. I agree that she is ready to put this guy behind her. She has admitted that there isnt a future there. Just...

So since this time i have been completely unsuccessful at backing off.....weekend lunch...."playing" in the office all day long....long conversations in parked car....went out for late night drinks...

Okay I get it. Smackie, your wording is eerily similar to mine and it hit a chord. Im going to back off. Although I dont know if I should let it be known why I am backing off or simply disappear. ...

I agree that this isnt the traditional or accepted way to get involved with someone. What I dont understand is why do you hear of and see relationships (in real life, not the movies) that started on...

Wow.

I never really put her on a pedestal. Just because I think she is someone that I would really like to take out and spend more quality time with does NOT mean I worship her like a god. Not...

Thanks everyone for the input!

Last week, I initiated text communications on a couple of occasions and she did once as well and I asked her out for a drink sometime and she did accept but we never...

lunch date = 2 hours. the more im with her the more i like her. wow! feels really really good to be with someone that is so similar to me and so freaking gorgeous.....never thought that it cud...

Thats good to hear! I felt this way too, but Im wary of the friend zone. Guess the only way to combat this is to do as you said above (other girls, flirting/pulling back, confidence, etc etc). ...

So I started mildly flirting with this girl that is quite younger (and drop dead gorgeous) than I am at work. We seemed to hit it off quite well and I got the feeling from her body lang, eyes, and...

I do feel that I am beginning to allow myself to believe that I have done the correct thing. This forum (the replies and reading through the other posts) and speaking with friends and family have...

I have not felt that I had the proper feelings for her that someone should in a "romantic" relationship. When I reflected on her behavior and the way she would treat me sometimes I would recoil at...

Hello I have been involved with a woman for about 1.5 yrs now. Shortly after we met, we accidentally got pregnant. Since I live many miles away from her home (which is actually my hometown where my...

I posted before on this relationship. I met a girl a few years older than me that has accomplished much with her life. She has a house on the water, is ambitious, and incredibly disciplined...

My life has been a bit rocky the past three years (a divorce from a cheating wife, death in the family) and Ive made it worse. I need some guidance.

Before my father passed away (1 year ago), I...