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There's nothing, really. I consciously decided a long time ago that my focus, my reason for being, would be to find that one special woman and live happily ever after. I have been searching ever...

Look, I take break ups hard. I'm an emotional guy. I'm like anyone else, I just want to be loved. And I was SO close to having something that could last and it's not easy to just up and move on in...

It's really the only way. You are absolutely right. Thank you again.

Well I'm going to not talk to her. At least not be the one to initiate contact. I kept my distance until she started reintroducing herself into my life. As for hanging on privately? Yea of course...

That's some advice I intend to follow to the letter. Thank you.

You know Backup I've never liked your tone in any post I've seen you write in. But that's for another discussion. She's hasn't said "no" per se, she has said, and I am literally quoting, "yes! No!...

No, of course I cannot force her. I wouldn't ever want to FORCE her because it wouldn't be genuine. I have taken into account what she wants which is why, when she initially broke up with me in...

She's a woman. They all invariably want the same thing: to be in a loving and monogamous relationship that does not end. She lost that chance with her husband and now has the chance to have it...

How is wanting to be loved so bad it hurts selfish?

Besides, telling me how to roll over and accept what I cannot control isn't what I need. I need clear, concise information that will let me get...

You didn't have to change it. Lion is quite alright with me.

As for having empathy for her situation, I have done my best these past few months to understand and respect her need for time...

I don't know why you insist on calling me Lion (not the first time) but I am beyond wondering why.

I do not want to force her because it wouldn't be genuine or right then. At the same time I am...

You are right, she doesn't owe me anything. The problem I have is that from June to October of 2011 we were inseparable. We spent every single day together. She spent nearly every night with me...

Well I will admit I don't want to just be alone. I cannot imagine anyone really wanting that. But I had been single for a long time before I met her and since her and I stopped dating I have not...

Does no one have anything to say on this? Anything positive? Negative? I go day after day waiting for her to break out of this crap only to go to bed every night without any resolution. Just a...

I am going to spare everyone the details of this odd relationship because I have already posted them previously and they are not relevant to what I am asking. But I do have a few questions. ...

Yes, but are they truly happy with that non-alpha male? Or do they just put up a good show in public because it's the right thing to do and secretly desire what their husband is not?

I am almost 33 and I have seen nothing to suggest the way I see things is in any way wrong. Women want alpha males and because of how modern American society is now structured there are fewer alpha...

I'm sorry but I stand by what I said because at the end of the day humans are just another species of animal shaped by tens of millions of years of evolution. Our core way of being is written in our...

Blame women. So often they feel they deserve only the very best and shun all the rest. Not to mention they completely dictate when a man is allowed to have sex or receive any sort of affection. ...

Yep.

I get the feeling it won't be years though. All the indications out of her is that she is already starting to come out of her funk and is thinking about the relationship we had and what I...

I like Tanguerra's reply better than the most previous two. I am being there as best I can and not asking anything of her. I believe if she we're truly done anyway she wouldn't keep reaching out to...

BackUp, I knew what you meant and my reply still stands. As for her "not wanting me", that is quite a possibility but I don't think that is the case here. Things she has done and said go against...

That is certainly how she feels. She doesn't have kids but everything else is spot on. She flat out says she loves me and is in love with me but cannot be with me because of what's going on in her...

I think calling this pathetic is a bit of a harsh and unnecessary comment. A lucky escape, quite possibly, but good and sane people have things happen to them all the time that make them act a bit...