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I know we're human. I know what we go through is completely normal. It's all a part of the healing process. But I'm struggling.... each day is easier but my heart just doesn't want to let go. It has...

Just a few words to those who had their hearts broken and struggle to move on from losing a friend, a boyfriend or girlfriend, a soul mate, a best friend... a companion.

I haven't posted on this...

Anyone out there going through the emotions related to V-day?
Wishing that they weren't alone... cuz I am.

Happy anti-V day everyone!

I miss him.. a lot. My ex.

I sometimes imagine us being back together... where he places his arms around me and holds me so tight. I miss those special moments with him.

I am doing much...

My days are finally better now without you..
I am accepting that we are no longer together..
You will always be a part of my life..
I will not forget all those special moments between us..
I will...

Don't contact him. It will do you no good! TRUST ME!!!! You want to contact him because a part of you still wants him back... and a part of you still hopes that things will get better. But YOU know...

ditto to being sad.
i'm sad too.
sucks.
you're not alone.

I only now realize you didn't love me as much as I loved you even when we got back together the 2nd time.
I don't want you back because you don't deserve me. I treated you so well...
Why did I...

why is that we, the dumpees, always do things that don't help us move on? like contacting the ex, or checking them out on facebook, or seeing their friends on facebook, or asking other friends how...

why does it feel as if my heart will never heal?
he is continually on my mind, in my head... i just want to him to go away....
i don't want to think about him anymore...
the mind is so cruel to...

**WARNING -- tears may fall listening to this**

For those who are trying to move on:

YouTube - J Rice - Thank You For The Broken Heart (acoustic) Ft. David Sides (Original)

I'm getting out there now and gone on a few dates. I am moving forward. But sadly, I'm still not happy. I'm actually afraid.... afraid of not being able to meet anyone who has the potential to be my...

Ashley89 - if the 89 is an indicator of the year you were born then you have your whole life ahead of you. If someone tells you they don't love you then you have no choice but to move on. Why would...

Isn't it strange that all of us who have had our hearts broken know what we should do or how we should feel or know that it just takes time for the pain to go away... we've heard it from ourselves...

I just saw a picture of my ex. I don't know why I continually do this to myself - I have no more contact with him or any of his friends but this picture of his has placed pain back in my heart. I'm...

if you're both at the same stage in life and you both are at the same level of maturity... then yes - go for it!
the actual age is irrevelant.

Never finding that person to share your life with...

or

Loving someone who doesn't love you back...



I'm feeling a bit lonely today...

I have that feeling... I do. I will not lie. It comes across my mind on a regular basis. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. I want to find that person who I can share my life with. But...

I totally understand the pain. My heart is still broken but is mending right now.. I have constant flashbacks of our past together... of him.. of the good times. But I have to let him go. I wasn't...

I know what you're going through and a lot on this site do too.
Fake it until you make it. Live your life. Be happy on your own. That day where you will be happy will come... don't force...

This post has been really helpful. I come and visit this page and read it when I feel down. Thank you!

I think you really should sit down with her and have a talk. Be honest and tell her your feelings. Communication is key. Ask her how she feels and where she sees your relationship going? Talk about....

I say NO CONTACT at all. Doesn't matter what he thinks anymore and you really shouldn't care about it too... live your life now. :D

hey hope555,

thank you. you've helped me a lot. i would like to private message you but don't have enough posts to do it.

i know that i will eventually be with someone who will treat me the...

I am back with a heart ache. I just found out through a friend that my ex is dating someone now. I was actually doing well moving on but this news has set me back. I wish I didn't hear about this.
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