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Searock.....I do, but I want her to know I am trying to respect her multiple requests to erase myself, but she's the one that keeps initiating.

Just now:

ME: "I don't know what else you want...

Basically I will respond with, "I believe you've already asked me to erase myself from your life."

Good Morning!

OK....3 more contacts overnight (All Unanswered by me)

She texted me 2:20am: "You need to call me NOW....."
She texted me 2:45am: "I guess being a coward works in your favor...

:-) Thanks bro !!! Have a great night !

OK....great. Thanks so much again !!! Whether she calls, texts, or E-mails.....I will not respond to her, as it might be a provocation.
Until her tone changes. We hope ! ;-)

OK...thanks ! Will you be online tomorrow, by chance?

So instead of making me regret it and want her back, maybe she will regret this and want me back?

OK......so the reverse effect can really happen to her, I guess?

The Big Question is: Do you think she wants closure to be done with me or done with this particular argument?

Yes, you are right !!
I will let it go silent now with her. I did before and she came back with more. I feel bad she's upset, but like you said, let her realize she went overboard.

Thanks !

Wait.....I didn't E-mail her and she mailed me again:


"Just so you know.....you and I will never have a relationship ever again. By involving my family, all the bad came out. I never spoke an...

Solid...I am with that sentiment !

I know...sorry....I like both statements.
I just hate when she said BS....I have the mail here from her Bro in law after our convo by phone. But I guess she will see for herself that I spoke to him...

OK. I liked what you said; "In a weird way, she might be using it to keep communication open with you, which in a sense makes her feel closer to you this way, then not talking at all". But with that,...

OK......not even just forward her the mail from her brother in law as a separate E-mail with no comments from me added or anything??

So, basically, don't reply, right?

OK....I hate being called out and called a liar.
I feel like sending her the original mail from her Bro-in-law that says " I appreciate the heads up and I will speak to my wife tonight about what we...

She's back....

"That's BS!! My sister read the email to my Mother word for word. All of the attacks and accusations she has been making towards me since you sent it, come from that. So...hide...

Thanks Toknow. I tried to be as terse, yet, as much in control as possible in my reply to her.
At this point, there really is nothing more to say to her.
Will she contact me again? Not sure....

I was just acknowledging what she closed with: "please ERASE me from your life"
For her, it seems, confirming these extremes from her makes her panic. She's neurotic. I'm not saying she'll...

OH NO....why????

lol....I thought you went to bed.....so I edited and sent this:

"The only mail I sent was to your brother-in-law to ask him to speak.
We spoke by phone, not on E-mail. Please confirm that with...

Man this stinks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel like sending this reply:

"The only mail I sent was to ask your brother-in-law to speak.
We spoke by phone, not on E-mail. You can confirm...

OK......NOW she responded to the mail I sent on Friday !! (The quote she used below was taken from that letter I sent her):


"It's kind of ironic that I just saw this message. I have never felt...

"Try not to be in contact with her before she has time to cool down, that includes sending her anything. "

Sage advice I will follow