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Uh. . .what's so awful about posting the same question on two threads? I first posted on Ask A Male but there wasn't a lot of traffic on that one so I posted on this one. Isn't that was these forums...

I understand that and that's why I want the specific stories of others. We all know what makes us fall for someone, what makes us want to end that specific relationship, and what makes us want to...

Again, I'm looking for the personal stories of others of what made them want to break away from their first relationship and what made them fall in love (even when they thought it's what they didnt'...

Thanks for the answer! I know, in general, it's difficult to answer which is why I'm hoping some people can give personal relatable stories. Something on the lines of this:

"I was dating this one...

Just keep talking to her. Don't be shy about basic conversation. You guys have classes together so there's obviously things to talk about. Then if you find out you have stuff in common you should ask...

Thanks Pisces25! Are there any specifics you could add (if you, yourself, have experienced this)? What turned you off from the first girl? Was she insecure? Jealous? Needy? Can you recall what made...

Can any guy who has been in this situation answer this for me. And be totally honest. It will be helpful to some of us. . .

You've been dating a girl for a while but you decide that you want to...

Thanks guys!! I really appreciate your input!!

For the guys who have been in this situation:

You're in a long term relationship. You want the relationship to end. You tell your girl it's because "you're just not ready for a serious...

Back story:
About a year ago I started seeing this guy. When we started seeing each other I wasn't looking for a relationship and was just getting over a bad break-up. But, of course, I'm a female...

I would love some advice, especially from guys, because I am confused. Here is my situation:

I have been seeing a guy for over 4 months but we are not in a committed relationship. I feel he does...

Honestly. . .meditation has also been extremely helpful in keeping me balanced through this hard time. I don't know what anyone's religious beliefs are but whether you choose to pray, chant, or just...

Queen of Corona: I am so sorry to hear that there was sadness during your Valentine's but, you're right, the day is about *love* whether it's self-love, the love of your family, or being with the...

Hopefully the last time I use this thread:

I'm finally getting over you. I realized you are not a kind person and you stopped being kind to me a long time ago.
I feel sorry for you. I feel sorry...

I just did something that was *very* helpful and, granted I did spend a lot of money, but it was well worth it:

Because it was Valentine's weekend and I was dreading being reminded of my new...

That happened to me last night but I handled it well. I went to a party and saw a girl who I haven't seen in two years. She asked about my boyfriend and I was like, "well, uh. . .we're not together...

HopelessLove:
Hmmmm. . .I'm not really sure. Is this a new relationship for your friend? It sounds like she's not interested in this guy and was afraid if they were alone he'd make a move on her. So...

I'm staying at a nice hotel tonight and getting a manicure and a pedicure. I almost forgot it was Valentine's Day until the concierge reminded me when I asked where the nearest spa was (she told me...

Queen of Corona - what makes it worse is that my roommate has a TV in her bedroom so I don't understand why they have to lay all over each other in the living room while they're watching TV out...

My biggest pet-peeve post break-up:

When friends *immediately* try to set you up with someone else!!! It's been a little less than two months since my break-up but a month ago a friend of mine...

I was actually just thinking this!! I don't want to hang out with our mutual friends so during previous weekends I would travel to visit other friends just so I wasn't sitting at home, alone, going...

A friend recommended I get my birth chart read by a master astrologer and I was excited to do so because I do believe in these types of things. Anyway, before hand she said I could ask two questions...

I have a feeling I'm going to be posting on here a lot. . .
More thoughts for my ex:
I noticed you untagged yourself from the photos I have of us together. Even the pics from your freakin'...

I also hate Facebook. I allowed my ex to delete me as a friend and asked him to hide his wall and tagged pictures so I wouldn't end up seeing things I know I don't want to see. But. . .we still have...

Okay. . .here I go. I thought about my ex last night so I'll try to say here what I wish I could say to him:
I'm angry.
I'm angry that you could walk away after how much I had done for you. I'm...