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for a guy to be interested there has to be initial attraction.

The first page is all "don't be a friend and don't give a shit about their problems"

that's like saying "make yourself the opposite of their ideal partner and they'll want you"

is that just...

certainly guys are allowed to get emotional, but people aren't very accepting of it.

millennium of the stupid "man must be tough" crapola has pretty much mercilessly beaten sympathy for emotional...

Yeah well, for me its easy to get touchy...I'm...reactive. And frankly this thread is full of women down-playing the behavior of others, it really honestly COMES OFF(pay attention to these two...

I love how both genders never want to say anything incriminating about their own. Its just pathetic.


Ladies, quite a few of you are really immature little bi**es...really, stop glazing over it....

yes it could be you don't feel that spark with your new bf because you really can't let your old one go.

what they said...be aggressive but not forceful. Let him know how YOU feel.

LOL! The human mind never fails to amaze me...sacrifice EVERYTHING of your own to follow someone around for the "animal magnitism and sex" or stick with someone who's odd but ultimately a better...

I can't picture a guy not using SOME will power to hold himself back from a girl, and I'd be shocked if he wasn't at least a bit aroused by you...but that's not a detail that needs sharing.
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Meh, I just think the OP should see what happens with an older woman...couldn't hurt, he's an adult in his 20's now.

Oh and yeah, that's really pretty sad a woman would do that...but chemistry has...

That guy has some RADICAL will power to lay naked with a girl he's liked for that long and not try anything...like, not even make an advance...I mean damn I consider myself to have good will power...

I love how every other post is a total contradiction to the one above it. XD

but yeah seriously...friend = possibility.

lol trust me, its possible to be friends...ignore others. Yes there are TONS of situations where they can't remain so but that isn't always the case. I have plenty of attractive(VERY attractive in my...

This is exactly why I voice my opinion from the start. If you have to MAKE yourself agree with a girl then its not a good idea to keep going.

Yes, leave the lid on...if you and your girlfriend split...well ask her friend for "Advice" and see if you can somehow meet with "girl C"

But as long as your relationship with your gf is going...

Sounds like a good guy, maybe...I can't be sure.

again, if your mother has given bad advice in the past, IGNORE HER!

Have fun and keep your pants on unless you're absolutely sure he'll stick...

I sort of agree with Selflessnhumble, BUT...I disagree to another extent. I have female friends I'm not attracted to and female friends I am. Of course being PHYSICALLY attracted is one thing, having...

my advice:

Have your mom introduce you to the absolute youngest of her friends YOU can admit is attractive, why? Because getting experience with older women will help your confidence a bit....

I should probably mention the reason I'm so concerned about long term issues is because I'm looking for something long term, I want a family starting as young as realistically possible(while pulling...

guy sounds like an idiot, move on and find someone better.

harsh as that sounds someone has to have told him by now his relationships fail because HE is obviously attached to his ex.

yeaaaah this whole "equal rights" bullcrap pisses me off...

I find it so irritating that a guy can be fired simply because some woman's having a bad day and has to flex the power of her all-mighty...

Its defeat when you don't admit you're wrong, its defeat if you don't move on.

so mr. "I don't accept defeat" you're already defeating yourself by thinking this way.


so seriously, don't pull...

nope. *raises hand into the air*

=)

He probably just thinks you're busy, patience is a problem I myself deal with and it sucks.

If he doesn't respond in another day or so text him and just say "What's up? =)"

I'm a bit jealous,...

Confront her.

Say you feel guilty for what's going on and ask what her intent is, ask her to her face. Say "Hey, look I need to know...what are your intentions with me? I don't want to make you a...