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I just have a hard time telling if I'm being paranoid or if there are actually things going on now. It's so confusing.

He is very close with his cousin. And she is good friends with her as well, I'm pretty sure anyway.

I don't know if she was ever really chasing him to begin with. She wasn't overly flirty like he was in their conversations. I'm not really sure of her side of the story.

So you think there's no doubt about it?? Ugh..

Here's some background info so everything makes more sense:

Around March/April or maybe a bit before, I noticed my boyfriend had been acting kind of distant (not himself). I know that at times I...

I probably just need to become more confident and then I wouldn't need validation from him.

You're right, he is busy. I mean he's working 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. It's not that he doesn't reply though, I know for a fact that he has time at work. It's just that he doesn't reply in the...

Haha, okay I won't.

I guess the hardest part is even if I wanted to talk to him about this, he's away all the time and I'd rather not talk about it on the phone or through text. Ah, I know you're...

I would say I love you to him every day, but I don't think he would want that. He's not really that type. It doesn't even have to be I love you, although I would really like that.. even something...

I feel like eventually I will crack, too. I mean, I don't think I actually have to question how he feels about me. He has told me he loves me before (just not often or lately) and he did send me...

I've been thinking.
I am the type of person who loves hearing compliments, hearing that I am appreciated, hearing the words "I love you", etc.
My boyfriend is not really into doing stuff like that....

Thanks for the advice.
I find that when I write stuff down it helps too!

I think I'll try talking to him about it.

He's not very good at heart to hearts, lol. He really doesn't like talking about his feelings. Maybe that's also a problem with him not saying I love you.
I think I will casually bring it up when I...

Maybe she just wants to use condoms again?
I've been thinking about asking my boyfriend to start using them again, too. Just makes me feel safer about not getting pregnant.

I'm not sure. We don't really have any big upcoming changes. I'm finished school. The only thing I can think of is that he is unsure about where he wants to settle down. He has moved around a lot in...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years and he won't say I love you. In the beginning of our relationship, when he had been drinking once, he told me he loved me a few times. I wasn't...