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You're all right... I know we need to make a decision on this.... I guess I forgot to mention the key factor that is making it hard to do that. It is very possible that my career will be making me...

Just curious for some opinions. I'm already looking at this as a fatal red flag, but down for some outside input:

I've been dating this girl for appx. 6 months now, taking it very slow and have...

Umm... I'm considered a geek by most.... I know technology on a pretty deep level. I grew up a comic book junkie (mainly spiderman, if it's not obvious) and even though i dont have comics anymore...

That.... actually makes sense. I don't consider myself "perfect" by any means but I'm definitely not someone who needs "fixing" by a woman. I like who I am and I'm not planning on lowering my...

People definitely need to earn my trust.... it's not something that I just give away. But this last one earned it.... I think I'm not as immune to getting "played" as much as I thought I was

Haha... well, I guess if I had got home a week sooner it would have been on.

I moved home 6 months early to see her again. Was that still too slow?

You're right. Maybe I should have taken a step back when she mentioned that. One of my traits is to give the person the benefit of the doubt until they give me a reason not to. Is that bad? I...

We met before I left home again to finish up college and work for the summer. We talked and developed feelings while I was gone. I decided to move home 6 months early to be with her. She never...

Yes, I have asked them. The first couple of women that pulled this BS taught me to make sure to find out from women what their honest opinions are. Since then, I started asking women to be very...

I'm not understanding that whole concept. If you could break it down into "psychology for dummies" terms, that would help me out ;)

You'll get over her. The first love is a big deal but once you start dating around, she'll eventually just be considered another ex-girlfriend.

Haha that's exactly what I thought when I read my responses... I'm all "wow I'm really talking myself up right now". But I'm just refuting some of the suggestions that don't apply to my situation...

This discussion is making me wonder about this too.... It's not that I'm attracted to girls who are vulnerable because of a recent breakup or anything, they just so happen to be recently involved...

But she wasn't the one always making the moves.... half of the time I was doing it to. It was pretty even.... but she was just the one who started doing it first.

I think that's what I'm more...

I definitely agree... but not all of the girls I dated were on the rebound from their ex. Some of them were clearly independent and wasn't involved with guys for a while before I came along.... and...

The interesting thing is, I kinda realized that about a year ago. The most recent girl I tried to date had all the signs of being different than the others.... she hadn't dated anyone in over a...

That definitely seems to be the pattern I'm running into. I'm about to turn 25, and most of the girls I date are within a year or two of my age, older and younger.

I agree with that one 100%. The problem for me is it always seems like I found that type of woman who would prefer my type of personality.... but then they always bounce. I used to try playing the...

Well in that case, I don't have a problem there. We had our intense debates here and there and passion was definitely never lacking. In fact, most women would probably say I have more of an edge...

That is true.... it just seems like women tend to sugarcoat things more than guys would.

Yeah I figured it would be hard for everyone to help out with this. I'm definitely not predictable though, that was one of the other traits that kept things interesting for them.





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My first GF cheated on me with after a year together, and I dropped her. A few months later she started trying to get back together with me, to which I ignored her..... and kept doing so for 3 years...

You might need to give her some space. But definitely reassure her that she is the one you want to be with. Remind her of all the things you like about her over the other girl. Make the other girl...

So lets face it.... it's extremely hard to find a single girl who hasn't been recently involved with a guy somehow... whether it be a recent ex-boyfriend, or a guy they were casually dating, or even...