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Sorry I should add we live in Australia.

Yesterday my very close work friend told me she is planning on getting married July 2013, in either Las Vegas or Hawaii and she would like my boyfriend and I to be part of the small group of people...

He is kind, thoughtful, funny and sweet. I have a lot of wonderful things to say about him, but I started this thread because I was unhappy about something… I wasn’t aware it had to include all his...

TRUST ME I have tried it all.

He doesn’t like to be “pressured” into anything and says he will “do it his own way, in his own time”, so I leave him be.

I have made countless suggestions to him,...

This prevents us from doing things together.

Just last weekend we had nothing to do and I suggested we go ten pin bowling. I have always found it a lot of fun and we've never been together. He...

I am 29 and my boyfriend is 46 (17 year age difference). We started dating when I was 21 and he was 38.

Even in the early days I started noticing problems with the age difference. At 23 I would...

Haha this guy doesn’t look 19. He’s about 6 foot 5 with one of the most incredible bodies I’ve ever seen.

For the past 3 months, my 26 year old friend has been sleeping with a 19 year old man. They were both in agreement that it was just sex.

She noticed over the past few weeks that he hadn’t been...

I don’t think that’s a necessary or at all constructive thing to say :(



You’re probably right, but it would be a lot easier with a car. It makes a big difference. I can’t exactly carry my...

I don’t own a car either… the car is his. I only got my licence a few years ago (I live in a busy city and never wanted or needed a car, but he would nag at me to get my licence so I finally did,...

Thank you. I appreciate that more than you know :)



Oh gosh no. I work and he doesn’t pay for anything for me. I pay my own way 100%.



All too!

I’ve done this too. I made the mistake of discussing my past relationships too much with family and friends that I decided to just keep this one to myself. It just worries people too much if I tell...

Not exactly.

I live with him – at HIS house (a stupid lovestruck decision made by me many years ago).

I have a LOT of stuff that will take a LOT of time to pack up, including a lot of...

I have asked about this topic a lot of times on a lot of forums. It always comes back to THIS!

Please understand that it is not as easy as "just" leaving. The man has some wonderful points too,...

Thanks for your responses, guys.

I am embarrassed to say I have been tolerating this behaviour for over 7 years now.

Angelsnairwaves I am sorry to hear about your situation as well :(



I...

Whenever there is a problem in our relationship my guy completely shuts me out.

If e.g. I do something to upset him, instead of talking to me about it he gives me the silent treatment. I always...

I am a very sexual person, and anytime I want to express that sexuality my bf makes me feel disgusting.

I read erotic books and he asks me why I read them. I love burlesque and he shakes his head...

I did at first. I came home and purposely said “guess what I am going to do” rather than “do you mind if I…”. That’s when he went all quiet. I asked him what was wrong and he said he didn’t like...

You think I want to be a stripper/porn star?

Such as? :surprised

If you had read my post, Vincenzo, you would have seen that I wrote he was pushing 40.

I probably shouldn’t have said I was “more or less fresh out” of school, but I felt...

It’s not so much the concern about him leaving me, but more about avoiding the fight (yes, just like my mother used to do).

It’s just not worth the pain. He completely shuts me out. Doesn’t...

Why is it always assumed that women do these things for MEN? This may be shocking, but it’s not always about you men. Sometimes we actually do these things for US, to make ourselves feel good.

I grew up in a home where I was put down and constantly told I would never become anything and that I was useless. My mom was so afraid of my dad that she let it go on. I have been beaten down my...

So I am supposed to give up things that make me feel good – e.g. dressing nice and wanting to take a fun class with my girlfriends – to make HIM feel good? :surprised

but has a problem with HIS girl doing them?

My boyfriend always comments on what clothes he thinks are sexy on women, but if I go out wearing the same thing he becomes furious and asks me who I am...