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Clearly nice girls/decent/reasonable girls have spotted you a mile off. Somebody like you using a nice girl, would well and truly screw her up. Making love is making love, not a bloody sport/or fun...

I understand how you feel, this happened to me. Except he spent 3 years chasing me relentlessly, as there's a big age difference I thought it was a joke. During all this time the chemistry between...

Hey Grecoroman, this is a blessing you moving away from the situation will help you. Be wary in the future, because I will tell you why, you got used to this exciting game, it becomes addictive and...

I agree with Matthias, enjoy the flirting/semi social situations through work, sometimes this is as good as it gets. Sometimes real lives are just so complex, draining, depressing we need this. I...

well I understand how you feel, I do. But I have come to the conclusion if you let somebody go and be free, if they are meant to come back to you they will. I am currently in the same situation,...

yes sometimes younger people can be mature through their experiences and older people like me, only have a little experience being with 1 person for so long and a fairly settled life. Though I am...

Thank you for all your thoughtful comments, it's nice to know that old attitudes are changing towards relationships, which have always been prejudiced against older women younger men. I know I am...

I don't think your age difference is much, except perhaps you might just be a bit immature, but then she could be immature, but time will tell. If a man went out with a girl with the same...

Sorry for the length of this, but it's complex. I am an older woman, last year after being pursued for 3 yrs by a much younger married man, I had my heart broken and since then have been trying to...

Well, you are making excuses for him, because of your feelings, imagining he has the same feelings.. I have been where you are for different reasons, he pursued me relentlessly for 3 yrs. I...

Well, I'm not disilllusioned at all, just realistic. I know he has his life and his wife, I don't want to be his wife, she is welcome to all that boring stuff, been there done that bought the...

Wow, what a girl! I have been trying to do what you are doing. I told him to go I couldn't stand the games any more. You are so right, it's so easy to become obsessive, I have been guilty of that...

I have been in love twice in my entire life - I am now 63, I married the first. The last time was 3 yrs ago and I certainly didn't look for it, neither did I expect it. It came like a bolt out of...

Ha ha Boisdevie nicely put. I didn't like to say this, either tell him to get lost or ignore him completely, not even worthy of a response, they hate that!!

Hi - it seems to me you won't know what his intentions are until you make a decision to go ahead. He may have cooled due to work pressures, or somebody noticing..... and he's backing off. You may...

Well, to some extent I can accept there is an element of some truth in each of the last 3 postings. I know that as every decade passes, I see things differently. I have always been truthful, I have...

I find your answer so contradictory, you say one thing and contradict yourself. There is nothing deep about emotion? What drug cocktail is that similar to? It's all primal and subhuman? What on...

Hi, actually reading your posting and the responses has convinced me that:

you should not respond, if he feels anything for you, he will come back to you.

Indirectly your posting and the...

I believe as Boisdevie states that potential love and happiness is far too important for games. But if 1 side of the pairing reveals all and the other continues to play games, this results in...

Hello, well you just happened to fall for somebody who is like that. I have come to realise it's all luck. If we made a list of attributes that any potential partner should have, how can we be sure...

Sorry about the length of my posting, the complexities of my situation are something that replay in my head over and over. Interesting as a man, you're not interested in the detail, I guess that's...

Hi, it's good to know there are some straightforward men out there, girls will appreciate you I am sure. Thanks for your comments.

Hi, thanks for your reply which I just picked up. I guess my man is behaving the way you describe. Except that since my lasting posting, my man came back to me, 3 times. Each time he said he was...

Hello, my advice is do something for yourself, that makes you very very happy, then happiness brings out your inner beauty. Then you start to like yourself, for yourself, then you start to take...

Well, don't try to make a meaningful relationship over the internet unless you intend meeting face to face. My advice is go out and do something, join a class - something where you know men and...