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Hi Mabalzich

Thanks for all of the detail.

I totally understand how challenging the situation you're in is because I went through similar versions when I was younger. I see a lot of people...

Hi Dav123

I've seen this happen in my culture so many times and it's a real tragedy. Rather than it being about the couple themselves and being truly happy, other factors come into play and in...

Hi AT95

Ok, so just to be clear, things started to change as soon as the ex got involved and started messaging her?

If that's the case, then it seems like you have fallen into the 'nice guy'...

Hi AT95

If you don't mind me asking, what age are the two of you?
Also, have you had many experience with women before?

The reason I ask these questions is that, often, men who have...

Could you please provide some more detail? It makes it very difficult to give you any constructive feedback and help when there is no background.
Age, types of interactions, signs that she's...

Hi SpinningWheel

Sorry, I haven't received your message. Where did you send it?

Cheers
Sri

My Pleasure Daniella_xo

I totally hear what you're saying about the self-esteem part. It's so easy to take this stuff personally because relationships are such an emotionally draining area of our...

Hi Daniella

Hope you are well.

It's always a bit challenging to know either way because, unless I know how he is normally, his typical behaviours etc, it's easy to speculate.

I'll say...

Hi tim007

Well, that is one hell of a novel!

Anyway, to sum everything up, you did mess up a bit here in terms of your behaviour and the somewhat neediness, as well as some of the social media...

Hi Ladydi

So just to be clear, you're not wanting to get back with him - you just want clarity on why he's acting the way he is?

If so, then here it is. I'm generalising here and sometimes...

Hooo!

There are extremely vulnerable people on these forums and quite frankly, it's not an environment to build 'rapport' for a number of reasons, hence I firmly believe in being respectful and...

Hooo!

Please refrain from making judgments on other people's comments including the advice that I give. The beauty of forums are that we are all entitled to an opinion but it's also imperative to...

Hi Sazzyb

Thanks for your post.

This is a really interesting situation you're in...

Now i'm always a little skeptical when I hear stories like this (please don't take offence to this). ...

Hi Mike91

Thanks for your post.

Ok, so I completely sympathise with you and what you're going through. I'm a guy and hence, in our 'logical' world, I can totally understand where you're...

HI ShyAF

Thanks for your message and your honesty.

Reading your post - it's clear to see why you are struggling with women.

Firstly, your looks aren't the issue. I've worked with guys...

Hi Snook

Thanks for your post and your honesty.

I have to say - I really admire what you have done. Reason being is that most people who are in your position end up sticking around and living...

Hi Bedlington

Thanks for your messages and also for articulating them so well.

So your situation is not uncommon at all - in fact it's extremely common and one that can be resolved but it all...

Hi delhi_heart

Most of the truth has been spoken about by a lot of the individuals on this thread. I think you, deep down, know that some of your behaviour has been poor but that doesn't make you...

Hi Prin1982

Thanks for your post.

Firstly, I agree with you - try not to jump the gun here.

I'm going to come from a slightly different angle here. There was actually a time a while ago...

Hi Joe

There are a lot of tips I can give you for sure but i'm a little pressed for time right now to write them all here. I've sent you a PM - just email me and i'll put together a short video...

All the very best my friend. My prayers are with you.

I Totally understand how you must feel as it doesn't feel like too long ago where I was bed ridden and feeling lonely and isolated.
For me...

Hi Sadfella

This is really common so in your words, you're not being mental :-)

I agree very much with what theeviljester has mentioned. Dancing isn't that big a deal BUT, if she is getting...

HI SpinningWheel

Thanks for your message.

There have been a number of people here who have talked about confidence, making a move etc and whilst these are important, it's also important to...

Hi there

I personally think you are approaching this the wrong way.
Obviously the uncertainty of the situation is what's proving to be a challenge for you. This is understandable given the...

Hi Phillippa1989

Thanks for your message.

What you're going through is very common but let me provide my two cents worth.

Firstly, it sounds like he was playing a bit of a game at the...